{"id":122,"date":"2009-08-10T11:52:40","date_gmt":"2009-08-10T11:52:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/08\/moral-monday-speaking-truth-to-power.html"},"modified":"2009-08-10T11:52:40","modified_gmt":"2009-08-10T11:52:40","slug":"moral-monday-speaking-truth-to-power","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayethics\/2009\/08\/moral-monday-speaking-truth-to-power.html","title":{"rendered":"Moral Monday: Speaking Truth To Power"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-family: Arial, helvetica, hirakakupro-w3, osaka, 'ms pgothic', sans-serif\">Doing the right thing. Speaking up. Looking out for those<br \/>\nless able to defend themselves.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">These are qualities embodied by a man I grew up knowing,<br \/>\nand, throughout high school, was proud to call my friend.<span>&nbsp; <\/span>In fact, he was a lot of people&#8217;s<br \/>\nfriend, and still is today.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">His name is Brian Laguardia. You might recognize it, if you<br \/>\ngrew up in the nineties in Manhattan and went to certain public schools, or if<br \/>\nyou read the <i>New York Times<\/i> last<br \/>\nweek,&nbsp;where he was interviewed in a piece called &#8220;<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/08\/02\/us\/02suicide.html?_r=1&amp;emc=eta1\">Suicide&#8217;s Rising Toll<\/a>,&#8221; talking<br \/>\nabout his experiences as a soldier in Iraq in the <\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">1451st Transportation Company<\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">As I understand it, Brian was only months from the end of<br \/>\nhis inactive regular Army reserve duty when the Army recalled him to active<br \/>\nservice. He could have fought it; he had a good case and the resources to make<br \/>\nit stick. But he didn&#8217;t fight it. He dropped everything and went to war.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">And along the way he became comrades with a tight-knit group<br \/>\nof men; one of whom he felt had no business being in Iraq, due to an unstable<br \/>\nemotional history. Brian did his best; he notified the Army authorities before they<br \/>\nwere deployed, and again expressed concern for his friend&#8217;s mental health after<br \/>\ntheir return to the States. He tried to protect his buddy, and he did<br \/>\neverything he could against an enormous and faceless bureaucracy to get his<br \/>\nfriend find the help he needed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">Unfortunately, the Army dropped the ball, and Brian&#8217;s<br \/>\ncomrade committed suicide; a horrendous human tragedy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">Though the outcome may not have been uplifting, and I&#8217;m sure<br \/>\nBrian would probably be embarrassed I&#8217;m making a big deal about him, I&#8217;d like to<br \/>\nnominate my friend, Staff Sergeant Brian Laguardia, as my personal Moral Monday<br \/>\npick.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Arial\">The reason? We need more guys out there like him. Stand-up guys.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>Subscribe to receive updates from Everyday Ethics or&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/EverydayEthics\">follow us on&nbsp;Twitter<\/a>!<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\"><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Doing the right thing. Speaking up. Looking out for those less able to defend themselves. These are qualities embodied by a man I grew up knowing, and, throughout high school, was proud to call my friend.&nbsp; In fact, he was a lot of people&#8217;s friend, and still is today. His name is Brian Laguardia. 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