{"id":120,"date":"2009-08-07T11:33:50","date_gmt":"2009-08-07T11:33:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/everydayethics\/2009\/08\/new-feature-failure-friday-we-take-a-look-at-our-weekly-ethical-fails.html"},"modified":"2009-08-07T11:33:50","modified_gmt":"2009-08-07T11:33:50","slug":"new-feature-failure-friday-we-take-a-look-at-our-weekly-ethical-fails","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/everydayethics\/2009\/08\/new-feature-failure-friday-we-take-a-look-at-our-weekly-ethical-fails.html","title":{"rendered":"New Feature! Failure Friday: We Take a Look at Our Weekly Ethical Fails"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"priest-in-confessional.jpg\"<\/a><\/span>They say confession is good for the soul. We’re going to find out, starting today, our first Failure Friday!<\/p>\n

Last Monday, Hillary debuted our new feature, “Moral Mondays<\/a>“, honoring those who put their words into action and act in an outstanding ethical fashion.<\/p>\n

Well, that’s a great way to start the week<\/a> – here’s a great way to end it. Let’s take a moment of reflection on the week behind us, and consider how we could have done things just a little better. We’re not encouraging needless flogging. No, I see it as ridding ourselves of bad karma by sincerely confessing our ethical failures, big and small (yes, I’m mixing and matching my religious references. Sorry!) <\/p>\n

My ethical failure took place on Monday, and four days later, I still regret it. You see, usually I get a pretty worked up about censorship. I blog about it with some frequency, and I rant about it even more. Chalk it up to a bad day, general weariness, or just me being a bad person, but on Monday, I wanted to censor the world.<\/p>\n

I was cruising through the websites I read most every day–New York Times<\/a>, CNN<\/a>, Huffington Post<\/a>, Washington Post<\/a>, etc etc–and checking out the comments section on each article. Now, normally, I love reading the comments section. I usually enjoy that part more than the article itself. <\/p>\n

But on Monday, I felt like an explosion was imminent as I read all the snarky, angry, cynical responses to almost every article I read. Honestly? I just wanted everyone to shut up.
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At the time it seemed as though for every comment applauding something as innocuous as a man saving a kitten from drowning (fake example), there were 20 more comments deriding him for what he did wrong, how he was ridiculous, or why he should have let the kitten drown.<\/p>\n

I took it one step further; I not only wanted everyone to shut up, I want to do a time warp and go back to an era when we weren’t blessed with the digital functionality to voice our every thought. I ranted internally and launched a fantasy crusade where I convinced all media outlets to ban their readers from commenting.<\/p>\n

All I wanted, for that one day, was a world where only happy thoughts existed, puppies and kittens played together and everyone’s opinions lined up soundly with my own — basically, the Paddy version of Pleasantville<\/a>. <\/p>\n

Don’t worry, I realized the very next day (after I got the sleep I needed perhaps), how insane my censorship-advocating thoughts were. And, after that scary lapse in ethical judgment, I am once again 150% behind free speech and opinion. Whew<\/i>.<\/p>\n

What were your ethical fails this week? We’d love for you to join us in our weekly bit of soul-searching and self-improvement!<\/b><\/p>\n

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