{"id":465,"date":"2010-01-27T07:11:27","date_gmt":"2010-01-27T07:11:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/drnorrischumleysatisfiedlife\/2010\/01\/recipe-for-love-gratitude-for.html"},"modified":"2010-01-27T07:11:27","modified_gmt":"2010-01-27T07:11:27","slug":"recipe-for-love-gratitude-for","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/drnorrischumleysatisfiedlife\/2010\/01\/recipe-for-love-gratitude-for.html","title":{"rendered":"Recipe for Love: Gratitude for God"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, I&#8217;m feeling very grateful.&nbsp; I&#8217;m very happy just to have awakened again today, and to be able to live my God-given life one more day.&nbsp; It&#8217;s the 24th day of our &#8220;Give-Back Diet,&#8221; and I&#8217;m grateful to you for coming back today, doing your best, and living your God-given life to the fullest.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m particularly grateful to God, today, as I&#8217;ve lost a couple of longtime friends this week, but I feel particularly blessed to have had them in my life.&nbsp; They were mentors to me, and were really important.&nbsp; They both encouraged me and believed in me 100%.&nbsp; I will truly miss their always kind words; it&#8217;s so hard to believe their voices are now silent.&nbsp; Their encouragement still lives in me though:&nbsp; I still hear Bob Davis holding up an apple slice saying, &#8220;look at that worm hole!&nbsp; The worm gave up halfway!&nbsp; You&#8217;re not like that worm, Norris, turning back too early!&#8221;&nbsp; I still hear David Mallery&#8217;s &#8220;keep dancing Norris!&#8221;&nbsp; fondly remembering a retreat I attended 16 years ago.<\/p>\n<p>Bob and David taught me a lot, but a few truths stand out: put myself aside and help someone else.&nbsp; Encourage others.&nbsp; Believe in them.&nbsp; Appreciate them.&nbsp; See God in everyone.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s so amazing is that not only did they encourage me way back when, they kept on for decades.&nbsp; Every year, year-after-year, I&#8217;d get letters and Christmas cards from them.&nbsp; When Bob passed on a few years ago, his lovely wife Marjory wrote me an annual Christmas card, always with some nice word, or interest in what I was up to.&nbsp; She left us this week.<\/p>\n<p>I think what I&#8217;m most grateful for is the love they felt for me, and the love they gave me in abundance.&nbsp; They have helped me immeasurably, and their love and encouragement will be with me always.<\/p>\n<p>NOW &#8211; time for YOU!&nbsp; I want to continue to encourage you in your efforts.&nbsp; I believe in you.&nbsp; I feel like I have begun to know many of you who have posted, and I am really proud of you for taking action every day.&nbsp; Speaking of taking action every day:<\/p>\n<p>TODAY&#8217;S ACTION PLAN:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; When you feel the urge to splurge and eat something that you know isn&#8217;t healthy or good for you, stop.&nbsp; Allow yourself to feel some love.&nbsp; Think of someone who loves you, or someone who demonstrated love to you in the past.&nbsp; Feel their love and encouragement.&nbsp; Let that gratitude build inside.&nbsp; Take a few moments to really experience some loving words:&nbsp; &#8220;you CAN lose weight.&nbsp; You are powerful.&nbsp; You are beautiful.&nbsp; You are a child of God, and you are loved.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Let that gratitude build, and give it back to God.&nbsp; Say a little prayer: &#8220;God, thank you for the help you give me to stop my negative habits.&nbsp; Thank you for the love you give me.&nbsp; Thank you from the bottom of my heart, God.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; Now give-back that love to someone else.&nbsp; Write them an email.&nbsp; Pick up the phone and encourage and believe in them.&nbsp; Post a comment and affirm your gratitude for others in this program with you.<\/p>\n<p>I want to express my gratitude to you again.&nbsp; I love it that you&#8217;re with me in this effort to improve, lose weight, eat better, move and take good care of yourself.&nbsp; I send you my love, and belief in you.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This morning, I&#8217;m feeling very grateful.&nbsp; 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