{"id":265,"date":"2009-07-14T10:14:39","date_gmt":"2009-07-14T10:14:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/drnorrischumleysatisfiedlife\/2009\/07\/get-help-with-eating-problems.html"},"modified":"2009-07-14T10:14:39","modified_gmt":"2009-07-14T10:14:39","slug":"get-help-with-eating-problems","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/drnorrischumleysatisfiedlife\/2009\/07\/get-help-with-eating-problems.html","title":{"rendered":"Get Help with Eating Problems"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Are you extremely concerned with your eating &#8211; perhaps too much?&nbsp; If you starve yourself, or follow extremely limited calorie consumption, or binge and then make yourself vomit, or compulsively overeat, it&#8217;s time to get help.<\/p>\n<p>Eating disorders are very real, and dangerous.&nbsp; Pressures from our culture to be thin and perfect are very real as well.&nbsp; Unfortunately, sometimes it&#8217;s hard to face the reality about yourself.&nbsp; You may be caught in a very self-destructive habit and not able to see it, or unable to face it.<\/p>\n<p>Some danger signs:<\/p>\n<p>&#8212; a extreme focus on weight, putting almost everything else aside<br \/>&#8212; preoccupation with being thin or even skinny<br \/>&#8212; an exaggerated fear of gaining weight<br \/>&#8212; a thin body coupled with the feeling of still being fat<br \/>&#8212; over-exercising: over an hour a day<br \/>&#8212; taking laxatives to lose weight<br \/>&#8212; making yourself vomit to eliminate food<br \/>&#8212; instances of overeating without control, on a regular basis<br \/>&#8212; loss of menstrual cycles<br \/>&#8212; strange rules about food; bizarre food rituals<br \/>&#8212; feeling ashamed about eating, or bingeing\/purging, or about your looks or self<br \/>&#8212; regular feelings of anxiety, fear or inferiority<br \/>&#8212; feeling a loss of control about the world, your life, your body<br \/>&#8212; feeling a sense of control over things through food and eating behaviors<\/p>\n<p>If you are experiencing some or any of these danger signs, please don&#8217;t allow yourself to feel even worse and sink deeper into the problems.&nbsp; Talk to someone who can help.&nbsp; Don&#8217;t worry that your cannot afford it &#8211; there are many clinics, hospital or religious programs that offer free, confidential services.&nbsp; You may want to speak to your doctor, nurse practitioner, therapist, pastor or counselor.<\/p>\n<p>As always, I recommend asking God for help, too, in addition to seeking help from medical and behavioral specialists.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s a couple of articles in the New York Times about eating disorders that may be of interest and help.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/health.nytimes.com\/ref\/health\/healthguide\/esn-eating-disorders-ess.html?ref=health\">&#8220;When Eating Disorders Strike in Midlife&#8221;<br \/>By RANDI HUTTER EPSTEIN<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/health.nytimes.com\/ref\/health\/healthguide\/esn-eating-disorders-expert.html\">&#8220;Exploring Treatments for Eating Disorders&#8221;<br \/>By RANDI HUTTER EPSTEIN<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; &#8211; <\/p>\n<p><a href=\"www.twitter.com\/drnorrischumley\">I am loving twitter, and you may too!&nbsp; Sign up with me at www.twitter.com\/drnorrischumley<\/a><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Are you extremely concerned with your eating &#8211; perhaps too much?&nbsp; If you starve yourself, or follow extremely limited calorie consumption, or binge and then make yourself vomit, or compulsively overeat, it&#8217;s time to get help. Eating disorders are very real, and dangerous.&nbsp; Pressures from our culture to be thin and perfect are very real&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":171,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,2,18,3,10,5,17,21,12,8,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-265","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-diet","category-fitness","category-food","category-health","category-lifestyles","category-prayers","category-religion","category-spiritual-weight-loss","category-spirituality","category-weight-loss","category-wellness"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Get Help with Eating Problems - Dr. Norris J. 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