{"id":1180,"date":"2011-05-09T11:29:45","date_gmt":"2011-05-09T15:29:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/drnorrischumleysatisfiedlife\/2011\/05\/treatment-is-a-good-thing.html"},"modified":"2011-05-09T11:29:45","modified_gmt":"2011-05-09T15:29:45","slug":"treatment-is-a-good-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/drnorrischumleysatisfiedlife\/2011\/05\/treatment-is-a-good-thing.html","title":{"rendered":"Treatment is a Good Thing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From time-to-time, I like to write about the positive aspect of getting help and treatment when needed.  From a lot of personal experience, and in working with clients for many years, I know that admitting problems and seeking assistance can be very difficult.  <\/p>\n<p>Sometimes people think that admitting they need help may mean something negative, or even an indication of an insolvable problem or character flaw.  After all, we&#8217;re conditioned by our culture that we need to be perfect, even superhuman at times, and that admitting mistakes or problems can be signs of weakness or personal defects.<\/p>\n<p>On the contrary, I have found that it is a brave and courageous person who admits they need help. Facing problems head on, instead of fearing or denying them, is a major step towards relieving the problem, or at least the symptoms. There is no shame in getting help. We all need help.<\/p>\n<p>For example, when I weighed 400 pounds as a teenager, I was lead to believe that there was an underlying problem of will-power.  I was taught by the mass-consumption culture that I needed to diet, or needed diet products.  I believed this, and diet after diet failed.  I couldn&#8217;t control my will, much less my food consumption.<\/p>\n<p>After many failures, I finally reached out for help.  I made an appointment with a doctor, a dietitian, and I also sought help from God.  Ultimately, I got the true help I needed.<\/p>\n<p>It took me too long to just reach out, admit I couldn&#8217;t handle my own problem, and seek assistance.  In retrospect, I wish I had done that far earlier.  I could have avoided what amounted to a long time of needless struggle and suffering.  I had made my problems worse by waiting.<\/p>\n<p>I wish I&#8217;d known that at the time.  I wish someone had told me just to face the excess weight problem and get some intervention.<\/p>\n<p>I hope that today, I can be that someone for you.  A voice of impartiality, that recommends from experience that problems are more easily resolved when help is obtained.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; &#8220;Mysteries of the Jesus Prayer,&#8221; my book and movie on ancient meditations and prayers, are now available in bookstores, on the iTunes store (U.S. Only), and online.  The movie also continues on Comcast and FiOS video-on-demand in the SnagFlms Collection. <\/p>\n<p>Please visit our website, where you&#8217;ll find my book, DVD, CD of music and meditations, study guide, and free newsletters. www.Jesusprayermovie.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From time-to-time, I like to write about the positive aspect of getting help and treatment when needed. From a lot of personal experience, and in working with clients for many years, I know that admitting problems and seeking assistance can be very difficult. 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