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\"ipousteguy2.jpg\"<\/a><\/span>For many years after my divorce from my first wife, I found myself still with her in dreams, in situations that might have unfolded had we stayed married. My dream self aged at exactly the same rate as my waking self, and the circumstances of these dreams were entirely realistic. <\/font><\/font><\/p>\n


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Similarly, for years after leaving my second job, I would find myself, in dreams, working at the old place, dealing with new situations as they might have arisen had I stayed there. Slowly, my dream self began to understand that, “I don’t work here any more.” In a dream near the end of the long sequence, my dream self arrives at the old office building, briefcase in hand, to find that the company is no longer there. (In my waking reality, the company had moved its offices to another part of the city.) Foggily, my dream self gropes for the understanding that he doesn’t have to show up for work at either building. <\/font><\/font><\/div>\n

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As I recently discussed on this blog, dreaming can give us experiential knowledge of the reality of parallel worlds in which we may be leading parallel lives. Such knowledge, I believe, is vital to our understanding of the nature of multidimensional reality and to self-healing and personal growth.
\nSoul-loss and\/or soul-splitting may be at issue here. When we make a wrenching life choice, part of us – in disagreement with the choice we made – may split away and follow the path not taken. Becoming aware of that separated aspect of self and reaching to reclaim its energy and gifts can amount to vital soul healing. <\/font><\/font><\/div>\n

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There’s also encouragement in dreams of this kind to get our heads out of old mindsets and look at the world with fresh eyes. Long after I parted from my big-league literary agent, for example, I dreamed I was still visiting him at his office. I grew to understand that I needed <\/font><\/font>fully <\/font><\/font><\/em>to renounce the approach and priorities he represented – which included ranking the commercial valuation of projects above their intrinsic value.<\/font><\/font><\/div>\n

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One of the gifts of dream glimpses of alternate life paths is that they sometimes confirm that we’ve done well to make the choices that put us where we are, rather than on a different track. A woman who had never married dreamed she was stuck in a boring marriage, punctuated by endless domestic spats, and woke glad that she had stayed single.<\/font><\/font><\/span><\/div>\n

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There is more than psychology and personal soul work involved here. While quantum physicists speculate about Many Worlds theory and other hypotheses about the nature of the multiverse, active dreamers have the ability to bring back first-hand data.<\/font><\/font><\/p>\n
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Jean<\/i> <\/i><\/b>Ipoust\u00e9guy<\/i><\/span> <\/i><\/b><\/span>sculpture at his tomb in the cemetery of Montparnasse<\/i><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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