{"id":6408,"date":"2020-01-12T01:14:13","date_gmt":"2020-01-12T06:14:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dreamgates\/?p=6408"},"modified":"2020-01-15T13:16:06","modified_gmt":"2020-01-15T18:16:06","slug":"stressing-over-finances-ways-money-woes-can-destroy-your-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dreamgates\/2020\/01\/stressing-over-finances-ways-money-woes-can-destroy-your-future.html","title":{"rendered":"Stressing Over Finances: Ways Money Woes Can Destroy Your Future"},"content":{"rendered":"

Not having enough money when you need it can be a burden, to say the least. Besides this, you might be plagued by constant worries about how this will affect your future. Whatever the case may be, your financial woes will be far from over until you make an honest effort to fix the problem. Until then, consider a few ways money can ruin your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

No Emergency Cash<\/strong><\/p>\n

Having no money in the bank for emergencies can be frightening. Therefore, if your pet becomes sick, you might have to search for other options to save it from death. Besides this, medical bills may arise if you suffer from a serious injury. Don’t forget about any children or elderly parents you might be responsible for. If your car breaks down, you may lack the necessary funds to call a tow truck. It’s not only stressful when you aren’t capable of paying for necessary expenses, but may also be highly embarrassing.<\/span><\/p>\n

Relationship Destruction<\/strong><\/p>\n

Couples fighting over money is nothing new. Not only this, but money has the power to destroy relationships. A partner who earns higher pay may feel superior to the lower income earner. If this happens, a fight can arise side the one who earns less pay doesn’t feel appreciated enough. Moreover, another problem may be if you focus more on money than your relationship. Your main focus should be what really matters, and that’s your partner or family. Everything else should be secondary. You or your significant other may even be secretive about having a gambling problem. If this is the case, gambling money away can be dangerous to your futures. Being able to trust someone is one of the keys to a healthy relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

Health Problems<\/strong><\/p>\n

Stressing out over money can affect <\/span>your mental health<\/span><\/a>, causing you to suffer from anxiety, depression or other serious issues. You may even lose sleep and, as a result, not be able to think clearly or function normally throughout the day. Consequently, this could lead to insomnia, which can become diabetes and make you unable to work. If you aren’t capable of working, you’ll be back to worrying about money again. Before this can happen, take a deep breath and be positive. Make a commitment each day to finding your way out of the dark place you’re in. One of the first steps you may need to take is speaking to a trusted therapist.<\/span><\/p>\n

Excessive Debt<\/strong><\/p>\n

Having a lot of money in the bank won’t save you from making poor decisions with how you spend your money. Nevertheless, purchasing unnecessary items such as a new car or fashionable clothing can leave <\/span>you in debt<\/span><\/a>. Credit card usage may spiral out of control too easily. Furthermore, debt may also ruin your credit score, and make it difficult to <\/span>get a loan<\/span><\/a>, purchase a home or apply for more credit cards. Learning about proper money management can give you peace of mind.<\/span><\/p>\n

Taking charge of your life by managing your finances appropriately is essential to your health and well-being. For example, you can get a part-time job, slowly begin saving for an emergency fund and maybe learn about saving up for retirement. Once you start on the path to financial wellness, commit to securing your future for the better life you truly deserve.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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