{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Dream Gates","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dreamgates","author_name":"Robert Moss","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dreamgates\/author\/rmoss","title":"Don't live in other people's boxes - Dream Gates","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"fPaax0NLgI\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dreamgates\/2011\/06\/dont-live-in-other-peoples-boxes.html\">Don&#8217;t live in other people&#8217;s boxes<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dreamgates\/2011\/06\/dont-live-in-other-peoples-boxes.html\/embed#?secret=fPaax0NLgI\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Don&#8217;t live in other people&#8217;s boxes&#8221; &#8212; Dream Gates\" data-secret=\"fPaax0NLgI\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"\u201cIf\u00a0you haven&#8217;t the strength to impose your own terms upon life,\u201d as T.S. Eliot counseled, \u201cyou must accept the terms it offers you.\u201d This requires us to withhold our consent when anyone offers us a version of reality that is less than generous and open to fresh possibilities. I had occasion to think about this&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/dreamgates\/files\/2011\/06\/out-of-the-box-150x150.jpg"}