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</html><description>For many years after my divorce from my first wife, I found myself still with her in dreams, in situations that might have unfolded had we stayed married. My dream self aged at exactly the same rate as my waking self, and the circumstances of these dreams were entirely realistic.&nbsp; Similarly, for years after leaving&hellip;</description><thumbnail_url>http://blog.beliefnet.com/dreamgates/files/import/assets_c/2010/09/ipousteguy2-thumb-350x549-18001.jpg</thumbnail_url></oembed>
