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\"iphone-500291_1280\"Have you wondered how technology is affecting the current generation? Should you be concerned about all the screens your teen seems to be on perpetually?<\/p>\n

For the past 25 years, a \u00a0researcher (Jean Twenge, a professor at San Diego State University) has made it a point to study\u00a0generational\u00a0differences. \u00a0Her research led to an eye-opening article for The Atlantic<\/a>. Here are the results of her study. If you know a teen, pay attention as the results should lead to a call to action.<\/p>\n

Twenge found that the everyday experiences of having smart phones and the rise of social media have radically changed this new generation that she calls iGEN or GenBorn (born 1995-2012) .\u00a0Today’s teens are different than the millennials who preceded them. While both generations grew up with the web, iGEN has had the continuous presence of phones and social media in their lives. That presence has shaped their social lives in different ways.<\/p>\n

How teens spend their time:<\/strong> Virtual spaces have replaced actual spaces. What this means is that the typical call to independence with teens\u00a0leaving the house to congregate has changed. Twenge found that the need to go out is not as strong as “community” that is a touch away. As a result, this has changed social interactions, mental and physical health as noted below:<\/p>\n

Teens are physically safer:<\/strong> Due to the twin rise of social media and smartphones, teens can spend more time in their bedrooms on the phone\u00a0rather than going out. This means less chance for physically reckless behavior. From a pure safety point of view, teens are in the house and safe.<\/p>\n

Teens are psychologically more vulnerable:\u00a0<\/strong>Teen depression and suicide rates have skyrocketed since 2012. \u00a0“Teens who spend more time than average on screen activities are more likely to be unhappy, and those who spend more time than average on nonscreen activities are more likely to be happy.” The research indicates–the\u00a0more time spent on screens, the more unhappy and at risk a teen is for depression. The reverse was also found to be true. The more time off screens, the happier a teen feels. However, teens who are social overall, tend to spend time on both social media and with real life friends. But those on social media and not spending time with friends, become lonely. This data seems to be very clear- if your teen is very social, the screen time won’t make much of a difference, but if your teen is using social media to socialize, there are mental health risks.<\/p>\n

Changes in depression and suicide rates linked to social media use:\u00a0<\/strong>“Teens who spend three hours a day or more on electronic devices are 35 percent more likely to have a risk factor for suicide, such as making a suicide plan.” The thinking is that for those kids who feel left out, social media worsens that left out feeling. And when a teen, especially girls, are waiting for on-line\u00a0affirmations and likes that don’t come, they can become depressed even suicidal. Any teen vulnerable to feelings of isolation and depression is not being helped by social media use.<\/p>\n

Phone use is cutting into sleep<\/strong> (See my article, Do You Kiss Your Cell Phone Goodnight?<\/a>\u00a0 Sleep problems impact a host of things like depression, memory and more.\u00a0Interrupted sleep prevents the body from doing what it needs to do. During sleep, our body\u00a0removes harmful wastes from cellular metabolism and neutralizes them. Sleep\u00a0helps in decision-making, organizes and solidifies long term memories, and helps teens\u00a0learn better. So, if the light of a phone is keeping your teen awake, or interrupting their\u00a0sleep, learning is jeopardized. Put the phone away from the bed.<\/p>\n

Less dating:<\/strong>\u00a0iGEN is dating much less than previous high school generations.\u00a0Instead, teens “talk” in text on their phones.\u00a0The good news is that the decline in dating has also led to a decline of sexual activity\u00a0and the teen birth rate which is at\u00a0an all-time low. However, this is not real time socialization.<\/p>\n

Teens are not working as much and earning their own money.<\/strong>\u00a0Twenge noted that childhood is stretches into high school. Teens are waiting longer to take on the responsibilities of adulthood. She says that if your\u00a0social life is lived on your phone, you can be more content to stay at home and delay independence. But then, are we preparing these teens for the responsibilities of adult life?<\/p>\n

Teens have more leisure time than previous generations but spend it on their phones:<\/strong>\u00a0The problem is that phones and social media don’t really cut it when it comes to satisfying needs and relationships. This often leaves teens feeling alone and distressed. And even though teens are living at home, have more leisure time, they aren’t closer to their parents. It appears they aren’t\u00a0fully present in their real-time relationships because they are connecting on a device.<\/p>\n

Bottom line<\/strong> for anyone who knows or has a teen: Get off screens and engage with people who are present. Parents need to enforce screen use or teens will miss the importance of developing critical social skills in adolescence. Furthermore, your teen’s mental health may be at stake.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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