{"id":9186,"date":"2017-05-03T06:00:34","date_gmt":"2017-05-03T10:00:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=9186"},"modified":"2017-04-30T17:36:21","modified_gmt":"2017-04-30T21:36:21","slug":"feeling-disconnected-spiritual-fix","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2017\/05\/feeling-disconnected-spiritual-fix.html","title":{"rendered":"Feeling Disconnected? A Spiritual Fix"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9191\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/258\/2017\/04\/sad-2182545_1920-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"sad-2182545_1920\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/>Feeling\u00a0disconnected? Just getting through your day? Nothing much excites you and life feels like a struggle. The Christian life promises joy and peace and you feel neither. What&#8217;s going on?<\/p>\n<p>The answer could have to do with John 15, a chapter in which Jesus defines our relationship with Him and provides a prescription for life. Here is the definition- He is the true vine and we are the branches. Without this life-giving\u00a0connection, we can&#8217;t flourish and will move towards despair and death. Our well-being suffers when we are disconnected to the life-giving vine of Christ. With Jesus in us, we are to remain\u00a0connected.<\/p>\n<p>But we are told that we must cultivate this relationship by abiding in Christ. This means we stay connected through prayer, worship and reading of His Word\u00a0and move into a deeper and deeper intimacy with Christ. The more intimate we are with Christ, the more He shines a spotlight on our sin and highlights our competing affections. If we abide in Christ, we allow Him to prune us in order to grow and bear\u00a0more fruit. We don&#8217;t like the pruning process and may be tempted to cut off from the vine and go our own way. That path of disconnection leads to death. Branches need the vine for continued nourishment and life.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, Jesus wants us to bear much fruit. As the master gardener, the Father\u00a0has to prune us. Even though He cuts, it is not \u00a0punishment or intentional hurt. Actually, it is just the opposite. As we go through difficulty and stay connected to Him, He is growing us and positioning us to be fruitful. Pruning\u00a0forces us\u00a0to look at our\u00a0self-centeredness and selfish desires that have the potential to pull us\u00a0away from the affections of Christ. As we\u00a0move from dependence to self-dependence, we\u00a0block the source of nourishment and begin to shrivel up. This is when we are\u00a0tempted to give up and feel discontented.<\/p>\n<p>As we sort through our unfaithful and adulteress heart and remove those things that compete for God&#8217;s love, we grow more intimate with Jesus. Whatever we experience, we become a testimony of God&#8217;s grace as he continues to pump us full of his nurturing power. This is what it means to abide in Christ&#8211;understand how He \u00a0gives life and sustains us in this life; be dependent on God and allow His pruning through the work of the Holy Spirit; and produce much fruit so that others may know of God&#8217;s love and so that our lives bring glory to God.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Feeling\u00a0disconnected? Just getting through your day? Nothing much excites you and life feels like a struggle. The Christian life promises joy and peace and you feel neither. What&#8217;s going on? 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