{"id":8815,"date":"2016-12-23T10:25:27","date_gmt":"2016-12-23T15:25:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=8815"},"modified":"2016-12-23T10:25:27","modified_gmt":"2016-12-23T15:25:27","slug":"3-ways-intentional-christmas-meaning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2016\/12\/3-ways-intentional-christmas-meaning.html","title":{"rendered":"3 Ways to Be Intentional About Christmas Meaning"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"advent-514849_1920\"Watching the TV commercials and Christmas movies, you could easily forget about the true meaning of Christmas. So part of the challenge during this final weekend of Christmas is to be intentional about the holiday and focus on the spiritual significance through\u00a0all that surrounds us. Here are 3 strategies to help avoid the commercialization of Christmas.<\/p>\n

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  1. Advertisers see your children as consumers who will persuade you to buy their products. So they target kids to do just what many do\u2014hound parents for specific toys.\u00a0It’s great to purchase that trendy toy or wanted gaming system, but if you do, tie it to the greatest gift ever–Christ was born. For unto us a Savior if given. Enjoy the gift giving with your kids but use it to point to God’s gift to us.<\/li>\n
  2. Support real life activities that involve giving to others, e.g., preparing and taking food baskets to the poor, serving in a soup kitchen or mission, buying and wrapping gifts for the needy, singing at a nursing home, making cookies for neighbors, etc. Take your children with you to deliver goods or serve at a mission. Help them understand that it is better to give than receive. \u00a0Model it this time of year.\u00a0\u00a0 A small gesture like putting money in the Salvation Army’s ringer bowl is a message to children that giving to the needy is important.<\/li>\n
  3. Read the Christmas story\u00a0and\u00a0attend special church plays and musicals or a Christmas service. Draw children\u2019s attention to the spiritual side of Christmas because the culture will not do this. The pull towards materialism is strong but parents can change the focus. Again, this requires intention on your part.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    The key is to keep bringing the focus back to the real meaning. You can celebrate the commercial aspects, but keep focusing on the importance of Christ’s birth.\u00a0Merry Christmas!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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