{"id":8669,"date":"2016-10-31T06:00:45","date_gmt":"2016-10-31T10:00:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=8669"},"modified":"2016-10-29T12:28:00","modified_gmt":"2016-10-29T16:28:00","slug":"message-girls-halloween","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2016\/10\/message-girls-halloween.html","title":{"rendered":"The Message to Girls On Halloween"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-8670\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/258\/2016\/10\/halloween-519445_1920-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"halloween-519445_1920\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/>It&#8217;s Halloween and kids will come to our doors dressed in their favorite costumes.<\/p>\n<p>What I&#8217;ve noticed is that the costumes\u00a0for\u00a0adults\u00a0tended to be\u00a0&#8220;naughty.&#8221;\u00a0And some of the kid Halloween costumes \u00a0have the same theme.<\/p>\n<p>Many of the costumes sexualize girls. Short skirts, fishnet stockings, revealing body parts \u2014 a sharp contrast to the boys. Take the pirate costume for example, eye patch, baggy pants and top for guys. Same for the girls except the girl pirate wear a short skirt.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you are thinking, really, Dr. Linda, now you are harping on costumes! I am, and here is why. I like to take every opportunity to point out \u00a0the cultural message to young girls about their bodies. In the day of pushing equal pay and women&#8217;s rights, we continue to tell young girls they are defined by\u00a0their bodies.<\/p>\n<p>Take the movie, <em>Mean Girls,<\/em> for example. The mean girls have a conversation,\u00a0\u201cHalloween is the one night a year you can be a slut and get away with it.\u201d Then, they make fun of a girl who doesn\u2019t dress like a slut.\u00a0The message is, if you want to be cool, sexualize yourself. I know it\u2019s only a movie but this type of message is given in music and other media.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not just media that objectifies young girls, but also the fashion industry. And we know that\u00a0sexualized images of girls and young women in advertising, merchandizing and media are harmful to girls\u2019 self-image and healthy development (American Psychological Association, 2007). Yet, it continues.<\/p>\n<p>Halloween is a huge merchandizing holiday, filled with naughty and sexual costumes for fun! There is nothing \u201cfun\u201d about\u00a0sexualizing young girls. I see the fall out of this message in middle schools, high schools and colleges\u2013girls who think they have to be sexy in order to get noticed, and guys who think they have to score to be popular. Record rates of eating disorders and body dissatisfaction, along with negative self-image, are consequences of an over emphasis on physical beauty and sexing it up.<\/p>\n<p>Parents, consider costume choices\u00a0if your kids dress up. Find something that doesn\u2019t demean or sexualize them. Teach them to\u00a0have fun without being objectified!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Halloween and kids will come to our doors dressed in their favorite costumes. What I&#8217;ve noticed is that the costumes\u00a0for\u00a0adults\u00a0tended to be\u00a0&#8220;naughty.&#8221;\u00a0And some of the kid Halloween costumes \u00a0have the same theme. Many of the costumes sexualize girls. Short skirts, fishnet stockings, revealing body parts \u2014 a sharp contrast to the boys. 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