{"id":818,"date":"2011-11-03T07:45:41","date_gmt":"2011-11-03T11:45:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/doinglifetogether\/?p=818"},"modified":"2012-03-03T12:32:59","modified_gmt":"2012-03-03T17:32:59","slug":"impulse-eating-could-get-your-arrested","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2011\/11\/impulse-eating-could-get-your-arrested.html","title":{"rendered":"Impulse Eating Could Get You Arrested!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I had to <a title=\"the AP story\" href=\"http:\/\/www.latimes.com\/news\/nationworld\/nation\/la-na-sandwich-arrest-20111101,0,6197311.story\">read the stor<\/a>y twice to believe it was true. A couple was shopping at a Honolulu Safeway with their 2-year-old daughter. The mom, pregnant, picked up two sandwiches that she and hubby ate while shopping. She kept the wrappers in order to pay for the eaten items at checkout.<\/p>\n<p><em>Raise your hand if you have ever done this!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The problem was they forgot to pay. As they left the store, they were arrested for shoplifting. When they were hauled off to jail, the 2-year-old was taken to\u00a0 Child Welfare for 18 hours overnight.<\/p>\n<p><em>Now how crazy is this?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Yes, the parents did technically shoplift because they forgot to pay. But it certainly didn&#8217;t sound like a crime of intent. Woe to you who tastes a grape in the fruit aisle!<\/p>\n<p>Apparently, the store policy says you can&#8217;t pay for items once you&#8217;ve left the store, so they couldn&#8217;t just pay for the sandwiches and go their merry way. OK, so scold them, fine them or tell them to donate to a charity in the store. But to arrest the couple, send them to jail to post bail while the daughter is hauled off to social services, seems like security gone wild.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe a take away\u00a0 from this insanity is this, <em>wait until you pay for your groceries to actually eat them<\/em>. I doubt the woman would have gone into labor had she checked out first and then eaten the sandwiches.<\/p>\n<p>My point is that patience is a lost virtue in our culture. We don&#8217;t always have to do things the minute we feel like it. We can put on the breaks. So next time you go to the grocery store, drink a big glass of water and eat a snack before you shop. That impulse eating could just get you arrested!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I had to read the story twice to believe it was true. A couple was shopping at a Honolulu Safeway with their 2-year-old daughter. The mom, pregnant, picked up two sandwiches that she and hubby ate while shopping. 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