{"id":8038,"date":"2016-04-08T07:00:09","date_gmt":"2016-04-08T11:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=8038"},"modified":"2016-04-01T15:58:32","modified_gmt":"2016-04-01T19:58:32","slug":"press-pause-to-reduce-stress-eating","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2016\/04\/press-pause-to-reduce-stress-eating.html","title":{"rendered":"Press PAUSE to Reduce Stress Eating"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/files\/2013\/02\/woman-eating1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-4322\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/258\/2013\/02\/woman-eating1-300x215.jpg\" alt=\"woman eating\" width=\"300\" height=\"215\" \/><\/a>Tony was mad at himself. He wasn&#8217;t hungry but downed a burger and fries anyway.<\/p>\n<p>Renee finds that after a hard day at work, she opens the refrigerator and dives into the snacks.<\/p>\n<p>And Holly eats whenever she prepares for a big test at college.<\/p>\n<p>All three of these people eat as a reaction to stress. And this bad habit can pack on the pounds and lead to eating disorders. So, I developed the PAUSE Principle to help us stop stress eating.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The Pause Principle for stress eating <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>P<\/strong>&#8211;Purpose not to use food for stress relief-make it conscious and intentional that you will not turn to food when stressed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A<\/strong>&#8211;Attend to your body for signs of tension. You have to be aware of the stress you feel in order to stop. Pay attention to cravings&#8211;they are not the same as hunger. Cravings will eventually go away if you don&#8217;t feed them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>U-<\/strong>&#8211;Understand that chronic stress takes a toll on the body and that food is not a solution. Connect the dots&#8211;all this eating is leading to more stress. This is not a healthy solution.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S<\/strong>&#8211;Strategize ways to reduce, prevent and tolerate stress without using food. What else could you do instead of eating? See suggestions below.<\/p>\n<p><strong>E<\/strong>&#8211;Execute small changes\u2014engage in calming exercises like music mediation, deep breathing, Scripture reading, prayer&#8211;whatever it takes to calm your body and\u00a0relax. The more you practice calming strategies, the more you will do them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Strategies<\/strong> to reduce mindless eating when stressed:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Recognize\u00a0the physical signs of stress -irritability, poor concentration, lack of sleep, etc., then change your lifestyle to get more rest.<\/li>\n<li>Have a number of ways to de-stress\u2014hot bath, music, prayer, deep breathing, massage, quiet time, etc. Make a list BEFORE you are stressed. Then go to the list and make yourself do something on your list instead of eat.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t skip meals. Hunger may cause you to binge eat.<\/li>\n<li>Remove the source of stress when you can. For example, if you can say NO to work overload or stop spending money you don&#8217;t have, you are removing sources of stress.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t keep stress treats in your house-too tempting!<\/li>\n<li>Eat a small amount of a treat, not the whole thing. If you give in for the moment, OK but don&#8217;t keep eating. You can stop after a few bites and get back on track.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>For more help with stress eating, check out<a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Press-Pause-Before-You-Eat\/dp\/1439148643\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1459539749&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=press+pause+before+you+eat\" target=\"_blank\"> Press Pause Before You Eat<\/a> by Dr. Linda Mintle<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tony was mad at himself. He wasn&#8217;t hungry but downed a burger and fries anyway. Renee finds that after a hard day at work, she opens the refrigerator and dives into the snacks. And Holly eats whenever she prepares for a big test at college. 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