{"id":7981,"date":"2016-02-29T07:07:47","date_gmt":"2016-02-29T12:07:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=7981"},"modified":"2016-02-27T12:13:24","modified_gmt":"2016-02-27T17:13:24","slug":"mean-politics-why-do-we-tolerate-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2016\/02\/mean-politics-why-do-we-tolerate-it.html","title":{"rendered":"Mean Politics: Why Do We Tolerate It?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t usually comment on politics. But the name-calling, accusations, the total disregard for truth or facts\u2026 makes me sad. Of course, not every politician is doing this, but by in large, we have a lot of bullying going on. If children talked to each other like this in school, they would be in the principal\u2019s office.<\/p>\n<p>2 Timothy 3:1-5 should challenge us when it comes to the political climate today.<\/p>\n<p><em>But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days.<\/em><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><em>People will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy,<\/em><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><em>without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good,<\/em><strong><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><em>treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God\u2014 having a form of godliness but denying its power. Have nothing to do with such people.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>The constant bullying, boastfulness,\u00a0meanness towards those who don\u2019t agree with you, name-calling and so on can\u2019t be good for any of us. What does it teach us about relationships? How is this good role modeling for getting along with those who hold different views?<\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t agree, attack? Bully the person whose view you don\u2019t like? Call him or her a name? Make fun of those who believe differently? And ridicule people into silence? This is not political discourse. This is mean. And it is the same behavior we don\u2019t tolerate in\u00a0our children! So why do we tolerate it in politics?<\/p>\n<p>I think, in part, because it is entertaining. Negativity gets ratings and attention. We like a good fight and it seems the dirtier the better.<\/p>\n<p>But if we all conducted our relationships according to the impulsive pull, we wouldn\u2019t have relationships. Sadly, this election cycle has been a bad example of how to deal with differences. We\u2019ve lost something fundamental\u2014how to talk with each other respectfully and help people critical think about issues.<\/p>\n<p>If you feel passionately about this election, I am glad. I am passionate about my vote. But let\u2019s agree not to name call, put down, and basically be mean-spirited to those who have different views. What we see covered in media is embarrassing. It\u2019s like watching a bunch of unsupervised mean kids who need a good parent to come in and say, \u201cKnock it off! Now, be nice!\u201d \u201cLearn to get along without being mean.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don\u2019t usually comment on politics. But the name-calling, accusations, the total disregard for truth or facts\u2026 makes me sad. Of course, not every politician is doing this, but by in large, we have a lot of bullying going on. 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