{"id":6478,"date":"2014-08-25T07:00:54","date_gmt":"2014-08-25T11:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=6478"},"modified":"2014-08-22T09:47:10","modified_gmt":"2014-08-22T13:47:10","slug":"teacher-tells-student-what-words-she-cannot-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2014\/08\/teacher-tells-student-what-words-she-cannot-say.html","title":{"rendered":"Teacher Tells Student What Words She Cannot Say!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some things defy common sense&#8230;here is one of them. Be ready to be outraged!<\/p>\n<p>Maybe you heard the story last week.<\/p>\n<p>High school senior Kendra Turner was suspended in Dyer County Tennessee for breaking a class rule. You might be thinking, &#8220;OK, teachers need to keep control of their classrooms.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>But here was the rule: Students are not allowed to say, &#8220;Bless you&#8221; in the classroom. And the teacher listed other phrases not allowed in the classroom&#8211;words like, My Bad, stuff, dumb, etc.<\/p>\n<p>A student sneezed, Kendra instinctively said, &#8220;Bless you!&#8221; and the teacher suspended her, claiming her comment was disruptive to the class. The teacher also told her &#8220;Bless you&#8221; was for church and not the classroom!<\/p>\n<p>Bless you is disruptive? I thought it was a social grace!<\/p>\n<p>Get out your whistles! The thought police are alive and well in Dyer County Tennessee. And they are determining what WORDS people can and cannot say. And Kendra didn&#8217;t even mention God!<\/p>\n<p>Last time I checked, &#8220;Bless you&#8221; was a common response to sneezing, said to be empathetic to someone. Apparently we need to guard against those empathetic remarks. In the classroom, empathy is disruptive. Instead we need more self-centered, uncaring students who only watch out for themselves!<\/p>\n<p>Is this not ludicrous? Ms. Turner has every constitutional right to say, &#8220;Bless you&#8221; in a classroom. The teacher is way out of line and playing God even if she doesn&#8217;t like God!<\/p>\n<p>Teachers are to stimulate thought, not regulate it. I&#8217;m recommending an in-school suspension for\u00a0the teacher for lacking common sense and infringing on a student&#8217;s constitutional rights! Maybe a day in the Principal&#8217;s\u00a0office would create\u00a0a little civility in her.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some things defy common sense&#8230;here is one of them. Be ready to be outraged! Maybe you heard the story last week. High school senior Kendra Turner was suspended in Dyer County Tennessee for breaking a class rule. 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