{"id":5884,"date":"2014-02-10T07:00:05","date_gmt":"2014-02-10T12:00:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=5884"},"modified":"2014-02-09T19:16:46","modified_gmt":"2014-02-10T00:16:46","slug":"a-quick-worry-evaluation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2014\/02\/a-quick-worry-evaluation.html","title":{"rendered":"A Quick Worry Evaluation"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><b><a href=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/258\/2011\/08\/Letting-Go-of-Worry.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-2004 alignleft\" alt=\"Letting Go of Worry\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/258\/2011\/08\/Letting-Go-of-Worry.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" \/><\/a>BODY:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Check for physical tension.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have any of the physical signs of anxiety such as a racing or pounding heart, sweaty palms, difficulty breathing, stomach upset, frequent urination or diarrhea, muscle tension, headaches, fatigue or insomnia?<\/p>\n<p>Be aware of your body and the physical sensations that creep in with stress, anxiety, fear and worry.<\/p>\n<p><b>SOUL<\/b>:<\/p>\n<p>List your concerns\u2014those things that bother you and could potentially become areas of worry. Ask yourself:<\/p>\n<p>Is this a concern or has it turned in to a worry?<\/p>\n<p>Is this concern something that is in or out of my control?<\/p>\n<p>If in my control, what am I doing about this concern?<\/p>\n<p>If not in my control, can I allow it to be without worrying?<\/p>\n<p>Your goal is to empty this list.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>SPIRIT:<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Take your concerns to God. Meditate on Deuteronomy 31:8<\/p>\n<p><i>The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.<\/i><i><\/i><\/p>\n<p>Are you able to lay worry down at the foot of the cross? Or do you carry it with you?<\/p>\n<p>Worry is released when we trust God and do not doubt.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>NOTE: If you feel you have excessive worry to the point that it interferes with your every day living, consider seeing a mental health therapist trained in treating anxiety disorders. An evaluation can help determine if your worry has \u00a0moved to anxiety. God wants us to live a worry free life, despite our circumstances. For more help, check out my book, <strong>Letting Go of Worry\u00a0<\/strong>for strategies to be worry free.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; BODY: Check for physical tension. Do you have any of the physical signs of anxiety such as a racing or pounding heart, sweaty palms, difficulty breathing, stomach upset, frequent urination or diarrhea, muscle tension, headaches, fatigue or insomnia? 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