{"id":3730,"date":"2012-12-14T08:00:56","date_gmt":"2012-12-14T13:00:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/doinglifetogether\/?p=3730"},"modified":"2012-12-10T14:37:10","modified_gmt":"2012-12-10T19:37:10","slug":"5-tips-to-fight-the-holiday-blues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2012\/12\/5-tips-to-fight-the-holiday-blues.html","title":{"rendered":"5 Tips to Fight the Holiday Blues"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>The holidays can bring overwhelming demands, over commitment, worries about finances, and unrealistic expectations. Sometimes, as a reaction to all the busyness, we find ourselves feeling down or little blue.<\/p>\n

So how can you fight those down feelings?<\/p>\n

1) Think balance and moderation.<\/strong> Excessive demands, extra commitments, overeating, little sleep and no exercise can all bring you out of balance and lead to feeling tired and irritable . Bring balance to a busy time by pacing yourself and slowing down enough to exercise self-care.<\/p>\n

2) Don’t isolate.<\/strong> Make sure you don’t isolate yourself. A trigger for depression this time of year is isolating and avoiding people. Stay in touch with friends, people in your church and loved ones.<\/p>\n

3) Participate in uplifting holiday activities.<\/strong> Go to a sing along, a caroling night, a church performance of the Messiah, a play. Churches have a lot going on this time of year. Attending the festivities will uplift your spirit.<\/p>\n

4) Give to others.<\/strong> One of the best ways to feel better is to give. Volunteer at a soup kitchen. Take toys to the underprivileged, help with decorations at a school or church, offer to collect money for a charity, etc.<\/p>\n

5) Monitor your thoughts.<\/strong> You can feel down if your thoughts begin to go negative. Don’t grumble and complain. If you focus on what is wrong versus what is positive, you will feel down. Take your thoughts captive. Think of things that are good, count your blessings and stay positive.<\/p>\n

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