{"id":2376,"date":"2012-05-01T06:58:46","date_gmt":"2012-05-01T10:58:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/doinglifetogether\/?p=2376"},"modified":"2012-05-01T06:57:42","modified_gmt":"2012-05-01T10:57:42","slug":"5-reasons-people-dont-go-to-church-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2012\/05\/5-reasons-people-dont-go-to-church-part-2.html","title":{"rendered":"5 Reasons People Don’t Go to Church (Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Yesterday I posted a blog about the growing trend of not going to church. Here are a few of the reasons I think people stay home:<\/p>\n

1) Church people require us to practice what we believe.<\/em> It is easier to avoid church people and go solo in your faith. But going solo doesn’t test your ability to react to the unlovely, occasionally offensive person. Jesus loved the church and highly values it. He created the body to represent Him and work together.<\/p>\n

2) We are lazy and don’t have the discipline to get up every week and go to church<\/em>. It is easier to sleep in on Sunday, read the paper and have a great breakfast.<\/p>\n

3) Church is thought of as a consumer service.<\/em> There are aspects of it we don’t like, so why consume? So many people say they don’t go based on dislikes for parts of the service.<\/p>\n

4) Church seems irrelevant to daily living<\/em>. Churches need to do a better job addressing the issues of the day and equipping people to live in our culture. Rather than isolate from the culture, the church needs to be a place that engages culture and makes a difference. For example, in preparing for a conference that would address the issue of depression, a pastor said the people in his church were not depressed–clearly he is out of touch with what people are dealing with today. How can the church encourage and help those depressed if the church doesn’t acknowledge the problem?<\/p>\n

5) We don’t sacrifice our personal needs for others.<\/em> Churches often requires participation. It is easier not to go and avoid being asked to do anything. Yet it is when we give of our selves, that we feel better.<\/p>\n

These are just 5 of my thoughts. I would love to hear yours.<\/p>\n

What are your reasons for not going to church, or why do you think others don’t value church enough to go? Discuss!
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