{"id":23132,"date":"2024-05-30T08:00:49","date_gmt":"2024-05-30T12:00:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=23132"},"modified":"2024-05-27T09:18:08","modified_gmt":"2024-05-27T13:18:08","slug":"improve-your-relationships-10-tips-to-sleep-better","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2024\/05\/improve-your-relationships-10-tips-to-sleep-better.html","title":{"rendered":"Improve Your Relationships: 10 Tips to Sleep Better"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>If you believe you don\u2019t need much sleep, think again. Your lack of sleep may be impacting your physical, emotional and relationship health. Sleep matters! And most of us don\u2019t get enough of it.<\/p>\n

If you are tossing and turning, consider these 10 tips:<\/strong><\/p>\n

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  1. You might not fall asleep at the same time as your spouse. Women take an average of nine minutes to fall asleep at night compared to 23 minutes for men.<\/li>\n
  2. The effects of caffeine can last up to 8 hours after you indulge. So maybe skip the after-dinner coffee with dessert.<\/li>\n
  3. Don’t adjust your weekend hours of sleep. So many of us stay up later and sleep in on weekends, but this throws our sleep schedule completely off. It is better to keep your sleep and wake schedule the same on weekends.<\/li>\n
  4. Eat earlier vs. later. If there is so much activity in your home that you find yourself eating dinner late in the evening, make a change. The problem is that heavy or large meals eaten within a couple hours of bedtime can keep you awake. Eat earlier or eat a very light meal at night.<\/li>\n
  5. If your bedroom is toasty hot, turn down the temperature. A dark and cool bedroom helps you sleep better.<\/li>\n
  6. If you watch TV to try and fall asleep, this may not work as the bright lights can signal the brain to wake up!<\/li>\n
  7. Don’t exercise late at night. Your schedule leaves very little time for exercise so you cycle on your machine at night. If you exercise too late, your body is wound up, ready to go. Try to get exercise in earlier in the day so it doesn\u2019t keep you awake.<\/li>\n
  8. Too much to think about and remember? Write it down. If you put the issues on paper, you are less likely to toss and turn thinking about them.<\/li>\n
  9. If you nap during the day, it can make you less tired at night and throw off your sleep pattern. Stop the naps or make them short.<\/li>\n
  10. Too much on your mind? Try to switch gears and relax, letting go of anxious thoughts. A racing mind keeps you awake. End your day with prayer and meditation. Read the Bible and quiet your mind. Cast your cares on God and settle your mind on His goodness.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Make a few changes and see if your mood improves. The lack of sleep is one of the biggest problems with children and adults when it comes to irritability. Just a few changes could make you a better family member.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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