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Our child is three-years old and doesn\u2019t know anything about Halloween. My husband and I talked about it and decided we are not going to celebrate the holiday. Surprisingly, my friends are giving me a hard time about our decision. For many reasons, including some experiences in our lives that were dark, we don\u2019t feel comfortable participating. We know this might be more difficult as our child gets older, and our church is providing a Harvest Party. What is your opinion on this?<\/em><\/p>\n

After researching the roots of Halloween, I am not a fan either. I don\u2019t like the connection to occultic roots, the scary costumes, the gore, and the idea of frightening kids and desensitizing them to the dark spiritual world that does exist. But you need to do just what you did-talk it out with your family.<\/p>\n

Some people allow their kids to dress up in fun costumes and trick or treat. Others say NO to that activity and attend alternate harvest parties at their churches. Some feel alternatives should not be offered as it assumes kids are missing something. Others are no longer certain of the safety involved. There are many opinions on this topic.<\/p>\n

The important thing to do is research the holiday, pay attention to what you feel the Lord is telling you to do, and decide as a family. Pray for wisdom and follow the leading of the Holy Spirit, not other people. Then help your children understand the position you take and why.<\/p>\n

Other people should respect your decision, especially if you have had any personal encounters with the dark side of the spirit world in your family or through the generations. And if your decision is simply based on the idea that you don\u2019t like what Halloween stands for and do not want to participate, you don\u2019t need the approval of others.<\/p>\n

Romans 12:2 reminds us not to be conformed to the world, but to be transformed by the renewing of our minds. In our post Christian culture, taking a stand for what you believe to be true based on Scripture is an important lesson to model for children. Perhaps that is what you will teach your child as she gets older.<\/p>\n

My caution, though, is\u00a0not to judge others. Many\u00a0use this holiday to\u00a0engage their\u00a0neighbors\u00a0and have\u00a0conversations about spiritual things. Others feel, they can dress up and had out candy because as Christians, there is nothing to fear. Still others see this as\u00a0an opportunity to talk about the spiritual world, a chance for cultural engagement.<\/p>\n

No matter what you decide, know this. Jesus overcame all evil, so we don\u2019t have to fear. He overcame the darkness (1 John 4:4)\u00a0and\u00a0triumphed over death and evil. And every day His overcoming power works in us when we are one of His.<\/p>\n

Assure your children that no matter what they encounter,\u00a0they are covered by the\u00a0precious blood of Christ (not scary, but comforting)\u00a0and\u00a0greater is He that is in us, then he that is in the world.<\/p>\n

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