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I cry during movies! \u00a0Toy Story 3<\/em> is a double whammy. The tears begin when Andy leaves the toys for college. Then we see all the toys holding hands when they are about to be incinerated. The scene is a tear jerker!<\/p>\n

Or how about when Mufasa dies in Lion King<\/em> and his young cub son tells his dad he can\u2019t die? \u00a0It rips your heart out! I also cried during the capture of the horse in Warhorse<\/em>; Lone Survivor<\/em> deeply affected me; Braveheart<\/em>, The Patriot<\/em>\u2026and especially, The Passion<\/em>, led me to tears and deep emotions.<\/p>\n

If you cry during movies, you could be one of about 20% of people considered to be highly sensitive. Now, not everyone who cries during movies falls into this category. But if you feel deeply when negative and positive emotions are presented, you could be highly sensitive. \u00a0And despite the criticism we hear about people being too sensitive these days, this is not a bad thing.<\/p>\n

Sensitivity is\u00a0a personality trait. It can be good as long as you don\u2019t allow emotions to overwhelm you or lead your decision making. The key is to handle intense emotions in order to prevent them from impacting your relationships negatively.<\/p>\n

So what do you do when you begin to feel an emotion is too intense and about to overwhelm you? A good strategy is to distract yourself with something completely off the topic for a few moments. For example, count to 10 in Spanish, or name four cities that begin with A. Doing this will engage\u00a0a\u00a0part of your brain that\u00a0counters the deep emotional feeling and brings the thinking part of your brain back on-line again.<\/p>\n

Another strategy is to take a time-out\u00a0when emotions overwhelm you. This gives you time to calm down your physical body and think better. Just take a few deep breaths! Deep slowed breathing will calm down that intense emotion.<\/p>\n

One of the positives of being highly sensitive is that it often goes hand in hand with empathy. An empathetic person can tune into the feelings of others, pick up on hurts, and be more creative in dealing with people. This is part of emotional intelligence and serves relationships well.<\/p>\n

So use that emotional intelligence! Feel deeply and express love and compassion to those around you. And go ahead and cry during movies! Don\u2019t be afraid to admit you are highly sensitive. The world is a better place with people like you.<\/p>\n

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