{"id":10476,"date":"2018-10-29T06:00:51","date_gmt":"2018-10-29T10:00:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/?p=10476"},"modified":"2018-10-29T07:52:15","modified_gmt":"2018-10-29T11:52:15","slug":"way-stop-hate-killing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/doinglifetogether\/2018\/10\/way-stop-hate-killing.html","title":{"rendered":"The Solutions to Hate We Don&#8217;t Hear"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-10477\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/258\/2018\/10\/holding-hands-752878_1920-300x172.jpg\" alt=\"holding-hands-752878_1920\" width=\"300\" height=\"172\" \/>Like most of you, I was grieved over the horrific events of last week&#8211;bombs sent in the mail to politicians and a gunman killing innocent Jews gathering in their temple to name a baby. The worst of humanity was on display. The amount of hate we continue to see acted out on the national stage\u00a0is frightening.<\/p>\n<p>In reporting on these events, reporters could not restrain\u00a0themselves from blaming everyone but the people who committed the acts. It was sickening to listen to the coverage. I listened to 3 major networks hoping to learn the facts without having to endure their opinions and blame. I rarely got that. Every chance reporters could get, they blamed their favorite targets of their own hate and dislike.<\/p>\n<p>Even when there was a plea from a few grieving people to focus on the deaths of American citizens and to stop the blame, it continued. I was so disheartened by the inability of reporters to be respectful, I had to turn off my radio. I couldn&#8217;t stand the vitriol that seemingly never ended. \u00a0The insensitivity was astounding. The coverage was so bad on one network, I stopped my car at a traffic light and prayed.<\/p>\n<p>One lone congressman told us to get on our knees and pray. He offered a biblical solution that no one wanted to talk about. It didn&#8217;t fit the narrative. No\u00a0one ever mentioned the\u00a0real solution for\u00a0change&#8211; a transformed heart. And yet as we desperately seek answers to the hate we see, 2 Chronicles 7:14\u00a0tells us how it will all change.<\/p>\n<p><em>If my people who are called by My\u00a0name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will\u00a0hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Action steps:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Humble ourselves<\/li>\n<li>Be the children of God called by\u00a0His name<\/li>\n<li>Pray and seek God&#8217;s face<\/li>\n<li>Turn from our wicked ways<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>The God response:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Heaven will hear our\u00a0prayers<\/li>\n<li>God will forgive our sin<\/li>\n<li>The land will be healed<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>We need a healed land. Yet, in my life time, we have moved completely away from national conversations that include the\u00a0role of faith in a nation that was founded on faith in God.\u00a0\u00a0Instead, we only discuss secular solutions that fall short and are incapable of changing a hateful person&#8217;s heart.<\/p>\n<p>Only God changes hearts. Only God can take a terrorist like Saul and transform him to Paul who loved those he once hated. If we want to stop hate, we need\u00a0God&#8217;s transforming power. And sadly, that&#8217;s not a message I heard anywhere in the analysis of the horrific events of the past week.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Like most of you, I was grieved over the horrific events of last week&#8211;bombs sent in the mail to politicians and a gunman killing innocent Jews gathering in their temple to name a baby. The worst of humanity was on display. 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