1.0Doing Life Togetherhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogetherLinda Mintlehttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/author/lmintleShift Your Focus, Shift Your Realityrich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="0nbKzKvBPd"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/2019/07/shift-focus-shift-reality.html">Shift Your Focus, Shift Your Reality</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/2019/07/shift-focus-shift-reality.html/embed#?secret=0nbKzKvBPd" width="600" height="338" title="“Shift Your Focus, Shift Your Reality” — Doing Life Together" data-secret="0nbKzKvBPd" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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I want you to try something. Put a black dot on a white piece of paper. Now, look at the piece of paper and tell me what you see. Did you focus on that black dot in the center of the page? Or did you think about all the white space surrounding the dot? Where…https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/files/2019/07/girl-1722402_1920-300x200.jpg