1.0Doing Life Togetherhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogetherLinda Mintlehttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/author/lmintleHow to Ask, Are You OK?rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="Vsykac04Qw"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/2018/07/show-concern-someone-struggling.html">How to Ask, Are You OK?</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/2018/07/show-concern-someone-struggling.html/embed#?secret=Vsykac04Qw" width="600" height="338" title="“How to Ask, Are You OK?” — Doing Life Together" data-secret="Vsykac04Qw" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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If someone you love or care about it not OK, what do you say? A friend recently asked how to bring up the subject of mental health with someone she cares about. She has noticed that her friend is not eating well and is sad and down most of the time. He seems to be losing…http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/files/2018/07/discussion-2822066_1280-300x204.jpg