1.0Doing Life Togetherhttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogetherLinda Mintlehttps://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/author/lmintleWishing for The Perfect Materich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="v91GsUiRb9"><a href="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/2018/06/looking-perfect-mate.html">Wishing for The Perfect Mate</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/2018/06/looking-perfect-mate.html/embed#?secret=v91GsUiRb9" width="600" height="338" title="“Wishing for The Perfect Mate” — Doing Life Together" data-secret="v91GsUiRb9" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript">
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Wishing for the perfect mate? Well there is good news and bad news. Here’s the bad news first. According to a study at the University of Gothenburg and University of Oxford, men want attractive young women and women want older men with resources. Yes, the Hollywood stereotype of the trophy wife who marries for money and…http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/files/2018/05/woman-3187620_1280-300x200.jpg