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Reader Question: My ex-husband has and I have divorced and he has visitation rights with our two children, ages seven and nine. The kids were scheduled to visit him over the Christmas holidays, but circumstances have changed and I would like some advice. My ex no longer goes to church and is living with a…http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/doinglifetogether/files/2016/12/hands-1246170_1920-300x225.jpg