{"id":3189,"date":"2018-11-14T22:56:29","date_gmt":"2018-11-14T22:56:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/depressionhelp\/?p=3189"},"modified":"2018-11-14T22:59:04","modified_gmt":"2018-11-14T22:59:04","slug":"farmer-stress-and-burnout","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/depressionhelp\/2018\/11\/farmer-stress-and-burnout.html","title":{"rendered":"Farmer Stress and Burnout"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/depressionhelp\/2018\/11\/farmer-stress-and-burnout.html\/180416-farmer-suicides-top1\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-3195\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3195\" title=\"https:\/\/www.google.ca\/url?sa=i&amp;source=images&amp;cd=&amp;cad=rja&amp;uact=8&amp;ved=2ahUKEwjexfLZ_NTeAhWxwMQHHQWXAsYQjB16BAgBEAQ&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fcivileats.com%2F2018%2F04%2F16%2Fsuicide-rates-among-farmers-are-alarmingly-high-can-federal-legislation-help%2F&amp;psig=AOvVaw3KQ2ofOTkUHvpw3GdoIP-t&amp;ust=1542322350458382\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/376\/2018\/11\/180416-farmer-suicides-top1-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"farmer burnout | Terezia Farkas | depression help | Beliefnet\" width=\"371\" height=\"247\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Farmers Bob and Barb get up early every morning. They work all day in the field, come home late, and sometimes have to go back into the field after dinner. Their bodies have severe pain, they both have sleep problems, and they&#8217;re irritable with everyone. But is it stress or burnout?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Men are different from women when it comes to handling stress and burnout. But when it comes to farmers, male stress and burnout which leads to depression and maybe even suicide, is at an all time high. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Farmers deflect stress.<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">When it comes to personal mental health, a farmer deflects his\/her mental health on other reasons. \u201cI\u2019m stressed cause it\u2019s calving season,\u201d or \u201cthis year\u2019s harvest is gonna be ruined unless I get all the crops out today.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Farming is a very high stress job. There are so many things that could and often do go wrong. The weather isn\u2019t in your control. Crop prices depend on politicians and trade agreements. If there\u2019s a trade dispute, like the one between Canada and the U.S., crop subsidies are needed to pull farmers out of financial debt. There\u2019s issues like pay for farm workers, providing accident coverage for employees, mechanical upkeep costs, and general feed and fertilizer costs. A farmer has all these things and more to deal with. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">But at what point does stress become burnout? When does going back into the field every night to finish harvesting start physically hurting? How do you even know if you\u2019re burned out?<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Burnout.<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Burnout is when your body has had it physically and mentally. Its hit the proverbial wall. Stress has become unhealthy. It\u2019s ruining your body, and it\u2019s taking a toll on your ability to think. Your brain is overloaded and wants to shut out anxieties that are causing all sorts of chemical chaos in the body. Sometimes burnout shows itself slowly. Other times it\u2019s a dramatic shutdown. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Warning Signs of Burnout.<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If your ability to function is impaired, or your relationships are getting testy or unhealthy, its time to check your stress and burnout levels. Men are particularly bad when it comes to admitting burnout. Men have this belief that they have to be strong and in control of their emotions. When a man feels hopeless, helpless, or overwhelmed by despair, he tends to deny it or cover it up by drinking too much, behaving recklessly, or exploding with anger. A man is more likely to deny his feelings, to hide them from others, or mask depression with other behaviour (gambling, sex, food, anger).<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Signs of burnout include:<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Low energy and motivation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Severe irritability and losing your temper easily. Feeling restless and agitated.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Severe physical pains, usually back pains and headaches.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Sexual problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Difficulty sleeping.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Turning to alcohol, gambling, food, sex, anger as ways to vent anxiety and frustration.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Change in attitude like cynicism, detachment, feelings of being ineffective.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>How to Fight Burnout<\/b><\/span><\/h3>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Be aware that you\u2019re stressed out. The first step is always knowing and admitting that you\u2019re stretched too thin.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Talk to someone. Tell your partner or doctor or a friend about how you\u2019re feeling. Be honest. Don\u2019t be ashamed or afraid.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Ask for help. Ask a friend or family member to help with the chores or finances. Reach out to the farming community if any farmers can help you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Change up the workload. Reduce how much you\u2019re doing by sharing your workload with someone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Take some time out. This is the hardest thing for a farmer to do. 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