{"id":2002,"date":"2017-02-01T04:34:08","date_gmt":"2017-02-01T04:34:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/depressionhelp\/?p=2002"},"modified":"2017-01-31T04:34:51","modified_gmt":"2017-01-31T04:34:51","slug":"self-care-cope-depression","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/depressionhelp\/2017\/02\/self-care-cope-depression.html","title":{"rendered":"Self Care To Cope With Depression"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/depressionhelp\/?attachment_id=2008\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-2008\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-2008\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/376\/2017\/01\/nice.jpeg\" alt=\"self care to cope with depression | Terezia Farkas | author | depression help | Beliefnet\" width=\"263\" height=\"267\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Trying to cope with depression is tough. When it\u2019s not easy to even get out of bed, it\u2019s not easy doing anything! When you don\u2019t have energy, your brain feels fuzzy, your body aches, and all you want to do is sleep. Depression keeps sleep away by filling your head with negative thoughts that go round and round and round all night.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">So how do you cope with depression? Here are some simple self care tips.<\/span><\/h3>\n<h4 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">1. Start simple and small. <\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Life isn\u2019t about the destination. The journey is the challenge and reward. Don\u2019t try to do ten things in a day if only one is enough to drain you of energy. There is always tomorrow! You may not believe that. But honestly, that pile of laundry isn\u2019t going to crawl away if you don\u2019t do it all today. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">2. Don\u2019t put expectations on what you do. <\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">You are not perfect. No one is. So knock off the expectation that you can\u2019t, or shouldn\u2019t, make a mistake. Allowing mistakes into your life can be liberating. Go ahead. Misspell that word. Spill some milk. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">3. Do something you feel like doing. <\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Don\u2019t do something because it\u2019s what you used to do. In fact, somethings you used to do don\u2019t interest you or bring pleasure anymore. Sex. Your partner may desire you, but if you don\u2019t feel the urge, trying to fake it won\u2019t work. Depressed men tend to overcompensate for low sex drive by demanding sex or overdoing sex, usually without satisfaction. Again, do something you will enjoy.<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">4. Get enough sleep. <\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">I know, sleep is impossible. No, it is possible. Instead of expecting to sleep through an entire night, take naps during the day. Even a power nap of 15 minutes will help. Again, keep your expectations small. <\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">5. Eat what you crave. <\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Junk food. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Chocolate ice cream. Big Macs. Eat what you crave! Depression will suppress appetite so if you\u2019re actually hungry for something, eat it! Healthy foods are best. But some junk foods contain minerals and proteins that your body needs.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h4 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">6. <strong>Put tools into your wellness toolbox.<\/strong> <\/span><\/h4>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Write up a list of things that you can do to make yourself feel better. Things that are free and easy are best. Like playing with a pet. A long, hot bath. Listening to music. Things that quickly boost your mood. It\u2019s a temporary fix but will help you cope with depression.<\/span><\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"page\" title=\"Page 1\">\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">* <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tereziafarkas.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to find out more about Terezia Farkas\u00a0<\/a>and Depression Help<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center\">\u00a0<strong>Join the conversation. Leave a comment. 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