{"id":4834,"date":"2010-08-29T10:07:21","date_gmt":"2010-08-29T10:07:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2010\/08\/my-brother-the-priest.html"},"modified":"2010-08-29T10:07:21","modified_gmt":"2010-08-29T10:07:21","slug":"my-brother-the-priest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2010\/08\/my-brother-the-priest.html","title":{"rendered":"“My brother, the priest”"},"content":{"rendered":"

From Denver comes this lovely tribute<\/a> to one newly ordained man in particular — and to the Catholic priesthood in general. The author concludes:<\/p>\n

David left a medical career and a beautiful girlfriend behind to pursue a life of a different kind of commitment. If you met my brother in a bar, you could cover such subjects as gunshot wounds, mountain biking, church history, and how to get a running start, leap off one leg and kick an 8-foot-high ceiling. He reveres women, mothers and children, and has been my protector since childhood. In David and those ordained with him (Father Mike, a skateboarder who smokes cigarettes, and Father Matt, a once frat-boy, both in their early 30s), I have seen a gentle firmness, a quiet prayerfulness, and a fierce love for families that grows out of their decision to remain childless. Oddly enough, the best priests model what fatherhood — a weakened role in so many communities today — can be. <\/p>\n

My brother’s orthodox Jewish friend, Libby, flew in for his ordination and shared my sense of wonder at his vocation. A squat elderly woman with dark eyebrows, Libby carried around a tattered maroon briefcase and spoke with a sharp, hoarse voice. <\/p>\n

“Have you ever heard of a mensch?” she asked. “Literally, it translates to ‘man.’ But it means any person who has decency. My father used to tell me to be a mensch. What he meant was to act always with integrity and decency. Decency. You either have it in you or you don’t. Your brother? Your brother is a mensch.” <\/p>\n

At the post-ordination party, we did what Catholics do: We ate and drank and steeled ourselves through conversation against hours, days, years of missteps. A seminarian showed up with three kegs. The Little Caesar’s on Federal donated 10 pizzas. When my brother showed up, he had a slice of pizza, a beer, and he blessed his friend’s nine kids.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Read it all.<\/a> You’ll be glad you did. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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