{"id":4062,"date":"2010-02-17T17:09:38","date_gmt":"2010-02-17T17:09:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2010\/02\/smile-and-say-ashes.html"},"modified":"2010-02-17T17:09:38","modified_gmt":"2010-02-17T17:09:38","slug":"smile-and-say-ashes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2010\/02\/smile-and-say-ashes.html","title":{"rendered":"Smile and say &#8220;Ashes!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Now I&#8217;ve seen everything.<\/p>\n<p>I have a brief break between services on this Ash Wednesday, so I wanted to share this incredible-but-true moment from this afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>It was our noon mass.  It was, predictably, mobbed.  Standing room only.  During the distribution of ashes, a father carrying his baby came forward to receive ashes from me.  &#8220;Remember,&#8221; I said, as I scratched a grainy cross on his brow with my thumb, &#8220;You are dust and to dust you will return.&#8221;  Then he smiled and nodded toward the baby, indicating he wanted the kid to get them, too.  Okay.  I made a tiny ashen sign of the cross on the baby&#8217;s forehead, repeating the familiar phrase.  And in an instant, the father grinned, and turned toward someone in the pews &#8212; the baby&#8217;s mother? &#8212; who was holding a camera.  He smiled and posed with the baby as the camera flashed.<\/p>\n<p>I can see the family album now: &#8220;Baby&#8217;s First Ashes.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Now I&#8217;ve seen everything. I have a brief break between services on this Ash Wednesday, so I wanted to share this incredible-but-true moment from this afternoon. It was our noon mass. It was, predictably, mobbed. 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