{"id":4036,"date":"2010-02-11T19:34:19","date_gmt":"2010-02-11T19:34:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2010\/02\/i-could-stand-a-little-of-that-unhappiness.html"},"modified":"2010-02-11T19:34:19","modified_gmt":"2010-02-11T19:34:19","slug":"i-could-stand-a-little-of-that-unhappiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2010\/02\/i-could-stand-a-little-of-that-unhappiness.html","title":{"rendered":"I could stand a little of that unhappiness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/Rabeder1_1574504c.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Rabeder1_1574504c.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/212\/import\/assets_c\/2010\/02\/Rabeder1_1574504c-thumb-400x250-11460.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-center\" style=\"margin: 0pt auto 20px;text-align: center\" height=\"250\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/span><br \/>\nFrom Europe comes <a href=\"http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/worldnews\/europe\/austria\/7190750\/Millionaire-gives-away-fortune-which-made-him-miserable.html\">this remarkable tale<\/a> of a millionaire whose millions were making him miserable &#8212; so he decided to give it all away: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\nAustrian millionaire Karl Rabeder is giving away every penny of his \u00a33 million fortune after realising his riches were making him unhappy.<\/p>\n<p>Mr Rabeder, 47, a businessman from Telfs is in the process of selling his luxury 3,455 sq ft villa with lake, sauna and spectacular mountain views over the Alps, valued at \u00a31.4 million.<\/p>\n<p>Also for sale is his beautiful old stone farmhouse in Provence with its 17 hectares overlooking the arri\u00e8re-pays, on the market for \u00a3613,000. Already gone is his collection of six gliders valued at \u00a3350,000, and a luxury Audi A8, worth around \u00a344,000.<\/p>\n<p>Mr Rabeder has also sold the interior furnishings and accessories business &#8211; from vases to artificial flowers &#8211; that made his fortune.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;My idea is to have nothing left. Absolutely nothing,&#8221; he told The Daily Telegraph. &#8220;Money is counterproductive &#8211; it prevents happiness to come.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Instead, he will move out of his luxury Alpine retreat into a small wooden hut in the mountains or a simple bedsit in Innsbruck.<\/p>\n<p>His entire proceeds are going to charities he set up in Central and Latin America, but he will not even take a salary from these.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;For a long time I believed that more wealth and luxury automatically meant more happiness,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I come from a very poor family where the rules were to work more to achieve more material things, and I applied this for many years,&#8221; said Mr Rabeder.<\/p>\n<p>But over time, he had another, conflicting feeling.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;More and more I heard the words: &#8216;Stop what you are doing now &#8211; all this luxury and consumerism &#8211; and start your real life&#8217;,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I had the feeling I was working as a slave for things that I did not wish for or need.<\/p>\n<p>I have the feeling that there are lot of people doing the same thing.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>However, for many years he said he was simply not &#8220;brave&#8221; enough to give up all the trappings of his comfortable existence.<\/p>\n<p>The tipping point came while he was on a three-week holiday with his wife to islands of Hawaii.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It was the biggest shock in my life, when I realised how horrible, soulless and without feeling the five star lifestyle is,&#8221; he said. &#8220;In those three weeks, we spent all the money you could possibly spend. But in all that time, we had the feeling we hadn&#8217;t met a single real person &#8211; that we were all just actors. The staff played the role of being friendly and the guests played the role of being important and nobody was real.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>He had similar feelings of guilt while on gliding trips in South America and Africa. &#8220;I increasingly got the sensation that there is a connection between our wealth and their poverty,&#8221; he said.<\/p>\n<p>Suddenly, he realised that &#8220;if I don&#8217;t do it now I won&#8217;t do it for the rest of my life.&#8221; <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.telegraph.co.uk\/news\/worldnews\/europe\/austria\/7190750\/Millionaire-gives-away-fortune-which-made-him-miserable.html\">Read on<\/a> to find out what he decided to do.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From Europe comes this remarkable tale of a millionaire whose millions were making him miserable &#8212; so he decided to give it all away: Austrian millionaire Karl Rabeder is giving away every penny of his \u00a33 million fortune after realising his riches were making him unhappy. 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