{"id":3939,"date":"2010-01-23T09:33:18","date_gmt":"2010-01-23T09:33:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2010\/01\/grant-desme-hed-rather-play-for-the-padres.html"},"modified":"2010-01-23T09:33:18","modified_gmt":"2010-01-23T09:33:18","slug":"grant-desme-hed-rather-play-for-the-padres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2010\/01\/grant-desme-hed-rather-play-for-the-padres.html","title":{"rendered":"Grant Desme: he&#8217;d rather play for the Padres"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The rising star of the Oakland A&#8217;s announced yesterday that <a href=\"http:\/\/newyork.mets.mlb.com\/news\/article.jsp?ymd=20100122&amp;content_id=7954958&amp;vkey=news_mlb&amp;fext=.jsp&amp;c_id=mlb\">he&#8217;s quitting baseball to begin studies for the priesthood: <\/a><\/p>\n<blockquote><p> <span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/193616glh.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"193616glh.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/212\/import\/assets_c\/2010\/01\/193616glh-thumb-250x263-10978.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" height=\"263\" width=\"250\" \/><\/a><\/span>The A&#8217;s prized prospect exited the season with a head-turning presence, accompanied by a bat that produced 31 home runs and a speedy 6-foot-2 frame that stole 40 bases in Class A ball &#8212; making him the only player in Minor League Baseball to enjoy a 30-30 campaign.<\/p>\n<p>An exceptional performance and MVP honors in the Arizona Fall League followed, so surely Desme was close to getting a call, most assumed &#8212; if not for a trip to The Show, then at least for an invitation to Spring Training.<\/p>\n<p>Yet, Desme insists he&#8217;d already received the call long before his final at-bat in the fall came and went &#8212; the one that would take him to bigger and better places.<\/p>\n<p>It just so happens it wasn&#8217;t what the A&#8217;s organization &#8212; or anyone else, for that matter &#8212; had in mind.<br \/>\nThe call, Desme announced Friday, came in the form of priesthood in the Catholic church.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Last year before the season started, I really had a strong feeling of a calling and a real strong desire to follow it,&#8221; the 23-year-old said. &#8220;I just fought it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Thus, Desme chose to play out the season as a test of sorts, &#8220;just hoping and praying about it.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;As the year went on,&#8221; he said, &#8220;God blessed me. I had a better year than I could have imagined, but that reconfirmed my desire because I wasn&#8217;t at peace with where I was at. I love the game, but I aspire to higher things.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I thought, I&#8217;m doing well in baseball, but I really had to get down to the bottom of things &#8212; what was good in my life, what I wanted to do with my life. And I felt that while baseball is a good thing and I love playing, I thought it was selfish of me to be doing that when I really felt that God was calling me more, which took me awhile in my life to really trust and open up to it and aim full steam toward Him.&#8221; <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> The article goes on to mention that Desme will be embarking on a 10-year formation to the priesthood at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.abbeynews.net\/index.html\">a Norbertine Abbey in Orange, California. <\/a>&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>For those who are wondering: <a href=\"http:\/\/newyork.mets.mlb.com\/news\/article.jsp?ymd=20100122&amp;content_id=7958082&amp;vkey=news_oak&amp;fext=.jsp&amp;c_id=oak\">Desme isn&#8217;t the only ballplayer to get The Call:<\/a> <\/p>\n<blockquote><p> John Werhas has never heard of Desme, but the former Dodgers infielder is familiar with the process that led to his decision. During two decades as a Baseball Chapel minister that took him into Major and Minor League clubhouses every Sunday morning, Werhas listened to many players struggle with a similar choice.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;They were torn by their desire to lead a more balanced life that accommodated their faith,&#8221; Werhas said. &#8220;Actually, I was one of the few voices that encouraged them &#8212; if they were good enough to play and get to the big leagues &#8212; to stay in the game as long as they had the God-given ability to play.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;If you think about it, there aren&#8217;t too many other things you could do where the two, sports and faith, better complement each other.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Desme clearly viewed the two as mutually exclusive.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I love the game, but I aspire to higher things,&#8221; he said on a conference call with reporters on Friday afternoon.<\/p>\n<p>The fair-haired Californian&#8217;s decision separates him from the crowd, but not the quandary he clearly faced.<\/p>\n<p>For many, their faith runs deeper, is far more profound, than a simple skyward index finger when something good happens for them on the field.<\/p>\n<p>Josh Fields, the infielder dealt by the White Sox to Seattle in November, also considered retiring from baseball a couple of months after his 2007 rookie season.<\/p>\n<p>The devout Fields was disenchanted with the clubhouse culture, telling the gathering at a Fellowship of Christian Athletes luncheon of the &#8220;many things going on in the clubhouse that I really questioned if professional baseball was for me.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ultimately, Fields &#8220;prayed about it and realized there is nowhere I could have more influence right now than in that clubhouse.&#8221; <\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> You can read more at <a href=\"http:\/\/newyork.mets.mlb.com\/news\/article.jsp?ymd=20100122&amp;content_id=7958082&amp;vkey=news_oak&amp;fext=.jsp&amp;c_id=oak\">the link.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/newyork.mets.mlb.com\/news\/article.jsp?ymd=20100122&amp;content_id=7958082&amp;vkey=news_oak&amp;fext=.jsp&amp;c_id=oak\"> <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The rising star of the Oakland A&#8217;s announced yesterday that he&#8217;s quitting baseball to begin studies for the priesthood: The A&#8217;s prized prospect exited the season with a head-turning presence, accompanied by a bat that produced 31 home runs and a speedy 6-foot-2 frame that stole 40 bases in Class A ball &#8212; making him&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":8,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3939","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-vocations"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - 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