{"id":3796,"date":"2009-12-17T06:41:48","date_gmt":"2009-12-17T06:41:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2009\/12\/if-i-ever-wear-this-just-shoot-me.html"},"modified":"2009-12-17T06:41:48","modified_gmt":"2009-12-17T06:41:48","slug":"if-i-ever-wear-this-just-shoot-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2009\/12\/if-i-ever-wear-this-just-shoot-me.html","title":{"rendered":"If I ever wear this, just shoot me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Because clearly I will be a danger to society.  <\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m talking about this outfit, from the New York Times today:<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/xmas.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"xmas.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/212\/import\/assets_c\/2009\/12\/xmas-thumb-327x500-10158.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-center\" style=\"margin: 0pt auto 20px;text-align: center\" height=\"500\" width=\"327\" \/><\/a><\/span><br \/>\nThe Times looks at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2009\/12\/17\/fashion\/17CODES.html?pagewanted=1&amp;8dpc&amp;_r=1\">the return of fashion<\/a>, at least when it comes to men, and credits (or blames) &#8220;Mad Men&#8221;: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\nIn the show, the older men &#8212; Don Draper and his boss, Roger Sterling &#8212; are the best-dressed characters, while the new-kid, cool-cat copywriters are so loath to play the game that they won&#8217;t even wear a tie. Soon enough, the hippie movement would deride the necktie as a &#8220;dog collar&#8221; and any corporate-minded spoilsport as a &#8220;suit.&#8221; In the decades that followed, a minor genre of films addressed the Unsuiting of Mr. X, from &#8220;Barefoot in the Park&#8221; (1967) and &#8220;Easy Rider&#8221; (1969) to &#8220;After Hours&#8221; (1985) and &#8220;Something Wild&#8221; (1986).<\/p>\n<p>Now the tie is on the other neck. Today the well-off 55-year-old is likely to be the worst-dressed man in the room, wearing a saggy T-shirt and jeans. The cash-poor 25-year-old is in a natty sport coat and skinny tie bought at Topman for a song. Young men are embracing the &#8220;Mad Men&#8221; elements of style in a way that the older men never did, still don&#8217;t and just won&#8217;t. The result is a kind of rift emerging between the generation of men in their 20s and 30s and those in their late 40s and 50s for whom a suit was not merely square but cubed, and caring about how one looked was effeminate.<\/p>\n<p>(snip)<\/p>\n<p>In a twist, neckties are being sold at the very place that did more than any other to usher in casual Friday: Gap. Not to be outdone, American Apparel now sells bow ties.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;The older generation, say 45-plus, look upon success as being able to dress down,&#8221; said Marshal Cohen, the chief analyst at NPD Group, which tracks retail sales. &#8220;They think being able to wear jeans is the epitome of achievement.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;But the younger generation is looking at getting dressed up and making their mark,&#8221; Mr. Cohen continued. &#8220;It&#8217;s a real generation gap here. I teach at three different colleges, and I am amazed how dressed up some of the students are. Girls still come in their hoodies and pajamas, but boys come in their suits.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>NPD figures for the year ending Nov. 1 indicate that sales of tailored clothing among men ages 35 to 54 were down 17 percent. Among men ages 25 to 34, sales were up almost 4 percent.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s these young guys rebelling against their boomer dads,&#8221; said Russell Smith, 45, the author of &#8220;Men&#8217;s Style: The Thinking Man&#8217;s Guide to Dress&#8221; and an advice columnist for The Globe and Mail in Toronto. &#8220;But it&#8217;s very amusing and paradoxical that the new anti-parental paradigm involves a pinstripe suit and a pocket square.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>  Now, maybe all this is a good thing. Maybe it will usher in a new era of civility. &nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>But does it have to include those pants? <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Because clearly I will be a danger to society. 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