{"id":3675,"date":"2009-11-17T05:50:23","date_gmt":"2009-11-17T05:50:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2009\/11\/the-word-of-the-year-unfriend.html"},"modified":"2009-11-17T05:50:23","modified_gmt":"2009-11-17T05:50:23","slug":"the-word-of-the-year-unfriend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2009\/11\/the-word-of-the-year-unfriend.html","title":{"rendered":"The word of the year: &#8220;unfriend&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Facebookers will recognize its meaning.  And now it is officially <a href=\"http:\/\/www.reuters.com\/article\/lifestyleMolt\/idUSTRE5AG09H20091117\">entering the lexicon<\/a>: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\n&#8220;Unfriend&#8221; has been named the word of the year by the New Oxford American Dictionary, chosen from a list of finalists with a tech-savvy bent.<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/assets_c\/2009\/11\/dictionary-thumb-300x334-9451.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Thumbnail image for dictionary.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/212\/import\/assets_c\/2009\/11\/dictionary-thumb-300x334-9451-thumb-200x222-9452.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"margin: 0pt 20px 20px 0pt;float: left\" height=\"222\" width=\"200\" \/><\/a><\/span>Unfriend was defined as a verb that means to remove someone as a &#8220;friend&#8221; on a social networking site such as Facebook.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It has both currency and potential longevity,&#8221; said Christine Lindberg, senior lexicographer for Oxford&#8217;s U.S. dictionary program, in a statement.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;In the online social networking context, its meaning is understood, so its adoption as a modern verb form makes this an interesting choice for Word of the Year.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Other words deemed finalists for 2009 by the dictionary&#8217;s publisher, Britain&#8217;s Oxford University Press, came from other technological trends, the economy, and political and current affairs.<\/p>\n<p>In technology, there was &#8220;hashtag,&#8221; which is the hash sign added to a word or phrase that lets Twitter users search for tweets similarly tagged; &#8220;intexticated&#8221; for when people are distracted by texting while driving, and &#8220;sexting,&#8221; which is the sending of sexually explicit SMSes and pictures by cellphone.<\/p>\n<p>Finalists from the economy included &#8220;freemium,&#8221; meaning a business model in which some basic services are provided for free, and &#8220;funemployed,&#8221; referring to people taking advantage of newly unemployed status to have fun or pursue other interests.<\/p>\n<p>In the political and current affairs section, finalists included &#8220;birther,&#8221; meaning conspiracy theorists challenging President Barack Obama&#8217;s U.S. birth certificate, and &#8220;choice mom,&#8221; a person who chooses to be a single mother.<\/p>\n<p>Novelty words making the shortlist were &#8220;deleb,&#8221; meaning a dead celebrity, and &#8220;tramp stamp,&#8221; referring to a tattoo on the lower back, usually on a woman.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>  I&#8217;ll leave it to others to parse the spiritual and sociological ramifications of &#8220;unfriendship.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Facebookers will recognize its meaning. 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