{"id":2957,"date":"2008-08-25T08:09:00","date_gmt":"2008-08-25T08:09:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2008\/08\/a-little-reminder.html"},"modified":"2008-08-25T08:09:00","modified_gmt":"2008-08-25T08:09:00","slug":"a-little-reminder","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2008\/08\/a-little-reminder.html","title":{"rendered":"A little reminder"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Some who have left comments here may have noticed that their comments have been deleted.  I don&#8217;t like doing that, but I have to draw the line somewhere, and a few observations have crossed that line.  I refer you to the statement in my &#8220;Welcome&#8221; remarks, in the column on the right: <\/p>\n<blockquote><p> If you choose to leave a comment, the ground rules are simple: no slander, profanity, racism, sexism or name-calling. Violators will be deleted. I reserve the right to moderate comments, if necessary, or even shut them down. The guiding principle should be: WWJB? &#8220;What Would Jesus Blog?&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> I don&#8217;t mind debate or disagreement, as long as it&#8217;s civil and respectful.  <\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a big church.  In the immortal words of James Joyce, describing the Catholic Church: &#8220;Here comes everybody.&#8221; There are a lot of differing opinions out there.  I want to try and make room for them all. <\/p>\n<p>I do my best to keep up with comments but, as you can imagine, I do have other distractions (like, say, my job) that keep me from monitoring The Bench 24\/7.  I&#8217;m also trying to avoid resorting to comment moderation, because that causes other headaches and tends to discourage discussion and slow things down. <\/p>\n<p>Recently, someone left a comment saying: &#8220;You have a very cute and attractive progressive Catholic site, but not a great deal of substance. Rather like a pleasant modern suburban Catholic church that just wants folks to like it there with maybe a snide remark thrown out at nasty old conservative troglodytes.&#8221;  I had to laugh.  Whether or not this place has any substance, I leave up to the readers.  But &#8220;progressive&#8221; is in the eye of the beholder. I number among my heroes bishops like Chaput and O&#8217;Malley; I appreciate people who kneel for communion and receive on the tongue; my favorite hymns include &#8220;Panis Angelicus&#8221; and &#8220;You Are Near&#8221;, and I also have deep love for &#8220;Tantum Ergo&#8221; and &#8220;I Am The Bread of Life,&#8221;; nothing puts me over the moon like a lot of incense and a little Latin; I love folk masses, with the right music; I&#8217;ve attended masses with liturgical dancing that have left me deeply and profoundly moved; nothing raises goosebumps in me more than when I celebrate Benediction and hear the opening chords of &#8220;O Salutaris Hostia&#8221;; and nothing disappoints me more than touchy-feely meandering and bloodless homilies that say absolutely nothing.  <\/p>\n<p>As I said, it&#8217;s a big church.  I love it all and see abundant riches everywhere.  <\/p>\n<p>Anyway&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Thank you all for understanding.  And, of course, thank you for visiting, reading, sharing, venting and supporting this little enterprise with your thoughts, ideas, presence and prayers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Some who have left comments here may have noticed that their comments have been deleted. I don&#8217;t like doing that, but I have to draw the line somewhere, and a few observations have crossed that line. 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