{"id":2915,"date":"2008-09-01T13:26:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-01T13:26:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2008\/09\/love-that-gives-life-and-hope.html"},"modified":"2008-09-01T13:26:00","modified_gmt":"2008-09-01T13:26:00","slug":"love-that-gives-life-and-hope","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2008\/09\/love-that-gives-life-and-hope.html","title":{"rendered":"Love that gives life and hope"},"content":{"rendered":"

Over the last 48 hours, there’s been considerable slinging of mud and whispering of innuendo<\/a> about Sarah Palin and her youngest child. Now comes the surprising news<\/a> that the vice presidential candidate’s 17-year-old daughter is five months pregnant. <\/p>\n

In the middle of all this melodrama, I found this beautiful and inspiring report<\/a>. <\/p>\n

After being bomarded by those kinds of sensationalistic distractions, this story helps to remind us, I think, of what truly matters: generosity, and compassion, and hope: <\/p>\n

Solomon Henderson inherited just three things from his birth parents, who left him at an Ethiopian orphanage when he was 1 year old: a picture of Jesus, a plastic crucifix and HIV.<\/p>\n

As one of some 14,000 Ethiopian children born with the virus every year, Solomon’s prospects for survival — much less adoption — were grim. But Erin Henderson’s heart stirred when she saw him, and she decided, on the spot, to adopt him.<\/p>\n

”They told me that they weren’t sure he would live through the weekend,” Henderson said by e-mail from her home in rural Wyoming, where she lives with her husband and 11 children, two of whom are HIV-positive adoptees from Ethiopia.<\/p>\n

Solomon, now an active 2-year-old with chubby cheeks and a shy smile, is part of a small but growing movement: Americans adopting HIV-positive children from abroad.<\/p>\n

Figures from U.S.-based Adoption Advocates International, the agency that arranges the majority of HIV-positive adoptions in Ethiopia, show a clear and steady rise, from two such adoptions in 2005, four in 2006, 13 in 2007, and 38 either completed or pending this year.<\/p>\n

The U.S. Embassy corroborates the trend, although its numbers are slightly different because it counts adoptions according to fiscal year. So far this year, the embassy said, Americans have adopted 25 HIV-positive children from Ethiopia, up from seven the year before.<\/p>\n

Ethiopia is at the forefront of the trend, in part because it is a well-established adoption hub. But countries including China, Ghana, Haiti and Russia also have seen increases, although the numbers remain small — fewer than five children in each country this year, according to U.S. adoption agencies that work with HIV-positive children. The figures could be higher, however, as many nations do not ask if a departing child has HIV.<\/p>\n

The motivations are wide-ranging — some parents say they were driven by religion or a desire for social change, or that the disease is more manageable than ever before. Others, like Julie Hehn, gave more personal reasons.<\/p>\n

”I was just scrolling through these pictures, and I saw the photo of Tsegenet, and I said, ‘Oh my God, that’s my daughter,”’ said Hehn, a 53-year-old elementary school teacher from Edmonds, Wash.<\/p>\n

Hehn said she was not looking for an HIV-positive child when she decided to adopt from Ethiopia.<\/p>\n

”I fell in love with Tsegenet and it just happens she’s HIV-positive,” said Hehn, who has 27 children, 19 of them adopted from Ethiopia and five adopted from the U.S.<\/p>\n

At a recent goodbye party at an orphanage in Addis Ababa, a 9-year-old girl who was heading to the United States with her adoptive family gave a shy smile as her friends ate doughnuts and sang farewell songs.<\/p>\n

The children — all of whom have HIV or AIDS and are looking for new families — belted out an Ethiopian hymn called ”No one is ashamed of you.”<\/p>\n

Ethiopian adoptions to the United States peaked at 1,255 in 2007, and the adoption of HIV-positive children is growing in step, according to U.S. government figures. American adoptions in Ethiopia have steadily risen from 135 in 2003, to 289 in 2004 to 440 in 2005 to 731 in 2006.<\/p>\n

So far, none of the children adopted through Adoption Advocates International in Ethiopia since 2005 has died. The oldest is now 13 years old.<\/p>\n

Margaret Fleming, the founder of Chances By Choice, an international HIV-positive adoption advocacy group that connects parents with HIV-positive children and adoption agencies, said her group also has overseen adoptions of children from Haiti, Guatemala and Russia.<\/p>\n

Fleming said her group has helped bring about 52 international HIV-positive adoptions since 2002 from assorted adoption agencies and countries, including Ethiopia.<\/p>\n

Fleming, who has three HIV-positive children in her own brood of 12 children, said she wanted to make a difference in the world.<\/p>\n

”I feel like I’m on the cutting edge of making an impact on this epidemic,” Fleming, 72, said by telephone from her office in Chicago. ”It’s given us a chance to be ambassadors, and our children to be ambassadors.”<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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