{"id":2909,"date":"2008-09-02T09:27:00","date_gmt":"2008-09-02T09:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2008\/09\/its-that-time-again.html"},"modified":"2008-09-02T09:27:00","modified_gmt":"2008-09-02T09:27:00","slug":"its-that-time-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2008\/09\/its-that-time-again.html","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s that time again&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_0DySLTT4PWo\/SL1BfHm2ChI\/AAAAAAAAC5M\/8tAPPpGFGvg\/s1600-h\/Empty%2BNest.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin:0px auto 10px;text-align:center;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"https:\/\/2.bp.blogspot.com\/_0DySLTT4PWo\/SL1BfHm2ChI\/AAAAAAAAC5M\/8tAPPpGFGvg\/s400\/Empty%2BNest.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>I found this over at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.concordpastor.blogspot.com\/\">the Concord Pastor&#8217;s blog<\/a>, and thought it well worth sharing.<\/p>\n<p>For all those empty-nesters and parents coping with kids trudging back to school, this prayer&#8217;s for you:<br \/><strong><span><br \/><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: center\"><strong><span>A Parent\u2019s Prayer <\/span> <span><\/span><\/strong> <strong><span>When A Daughter Leaves Home<\/span><\/strong><br \/><strong><span><\/span> <\/strong><span><\/span><br \/><span>Gracious God,<\/span> <span>you blessed me<\/span> <span>with the gift of my child<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>and entrusted me<\/span> <span>with her care.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>Now she leaves this home<\/span> <span>and begins a new life<\/span> <span>apart from me.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>Surround her<\/span> <span>with good people<\/span> <span>and watch over her each day.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>And let her know that I will always be near<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>whenever she may need me.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>Heal any hurts we may harbor with one another<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>and forgive our failings<\/span><br \/><span>as we learn<\/span> <span>to be in a new kind of relationship with each other.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>And when the sight of her empty room<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>pierces my heart with sadness,<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>may I find comfort in knowing that my child is your child too,<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>filled with your grace and sheltered by your love.<\/span><br \/><span>Amen.<\/span>   <strong><\/strong><br \/><strong><\/strong><br \/><strong><\/strong><br \/><strong>A Parent\u2019s Prayer<\/strong> <strong>When A Son Leaves Home<\/strong><br \/><strong><\/strong><br \/><strong><\/strong><span>Gracious God,<\/span> <span>you blessed me<\/span> <span>with the gift of my child<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>and entrusted me<\/span> <span>with his care.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>Now he leaves this home<\/span> <span>and begins a new life<\/span> <span>apart from me.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>Surround him<\/span> <span>with good people<\/span> <span>and watch over him each day.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>And let him know that I will always be near<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>whenever he may need me.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>Heal any hurts we may harbor with one another<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>and forgive our failings<\/span><br \/><span>as we learn<\/span> <span>to be in a new kind of relationship with each other.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>And when the sight of his empty room<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>pierces my heart with sadness,<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>may I find comfort in knowing that my child is your child too,<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span>filled with your grace and sheltered by your love.<\/span> <span><\/span><br \/><span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"text-align: center\"><span>Amen.<\/span><\/div>\n<blockquote><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I found this over at the Concord Pastor&#8217;s blog, and thought it well worth sharing. For all those empty-nesters and parents coping with kids trudging back to school, this prayer&#8217;s for you: A Parent\u2019s Prayer When A Daughter Leaves Home Gracious God, you blessed me with the gift of my child and entrusted me with&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":204,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[19],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2909","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-links-r-us"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>It&#039;s that time again... - The Deacon&#039;s Bench<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2008\/09\/its-that-time-again.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"It&#039;s that time again... - The Deacon&#039;s Bench\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"I found this over at the Concord Pastor&#8217;s blog, and thought it well worth sharing. 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