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<\/a> The morning service begins with the swift tap-tap-tap of drums, accented with horns. \u201cEl Se\u00f1or es mi pastor,\u201d the band sings out, echoed by loud claps from the pews.<\/p>\nHours later, another set of parishioners listens in reverent silence to an operatic rendition of \u201cCome, ye faithful, raise the strain\u201d as the faint sweet smoke of incense floats above.<\/p>\n
That evening, yet another band belts out, \u201cPeople get ready, there\u2019s a train comin\u2019 \u2014 all you need is faith to hear the diesels hummin\u2019,\u201d to the thumping bass of a three-piece jazz combo. <\/p>\n
Three services, three music styles, three very different congregations, one parish: Church of the Ascension on the Upper West Side. <\/p>\n
At a time when the Roman Catholic Church is grappling with sexual abuse scandals, a shortage of priests and the consolidating of churches and schools in many urban areas, including dozens in New York City, Ascension stands as just one example of a parish that remains a vibrant presence in the lives of its ever-changing \u2014 and still growing \u2014 congregation. <\/p>\n
The church has remained relevant for more than 1,500 parishioners not just by varying music styles, but by adapting to the shifting neighborhood and times. At a shrine in one corner of the church, there are pictures of Virgin Marys from across the world. A martini night has replaced coffee hour after Sunday evening Mass. There are citizenship and English classes for immigrants, an active lay leadership and welcoming messages to gays and lesbians. <\/p>\n
\u201cWe have a great richness in the city here, in our neighborhood, and that has to be reflected in our parish, in our worship,\u201d said the Rev. John P. Duffell, the pastor. \u201cYou have to observe and respond to what you have and see.\u201d<\/p>\n
In many ways, Father Duffell, 64, strays from the orthodoxy and formality preached by Pope Benedict XVI, who arrives in New York City on Friday. But the pope is also expected to praise the vibrancy of the American church; and in New York City, with 2.5 million to 3 million Roman Catholics, few parishes are as alive as Ascension. <\/p>\n
Tucked between Broadway and Amsterdam Avenue on 107th Street, the parish draws Latino immigrants, scholars with ties to Columbia University nearby and a growing number of affluent young professionals who have moved into the neighborhood in recent years. <\/p>\n
For the young, there are more avant-garde ways of worship, like the Sunday evening jazz Mass. Started in 1999, the service attracts 200 to 300 people, and a vast majority are under 40. The jazz service has all the traditional rites, and Father Duffell delivers a nearly identical homily as at the more formal morning service. But instead of a choir there is a jazz trio, and parishioners are often young Catholics who are attending Mass for the first time in years. <\/p>\n
\u201cIt doesn\u2019t feel like you\u2019re in church. For some people that\u2019s a bad thing, but for a lot of us, it\u2019s a great and exciting feeling,\u201d said Rosa Arenas, 33, a legal translator who grew up in the neighborhood and returned to the parish as an adult. \u201cThis is my sanctuary, at any time. There\u2019s just a sense of hope and renewal that I have every time I walk in.\u201d <\/p>\n
Several months after the jazz service began, a woman told Father Duffell that she enjoyed the service so much she felt she should have a martini in hand. The next week, Father Duffell announced from the pulpit that he was looking for volunteers to organize a martini night. By the time Mass had ended, he said, a committee had already formed. <\/p>\n
The monthly event now includes an elaborate potluck dinner and attracts hundreds of people, many nonmembers and even non-Catholics. That sort of ad hoc appeal is essential to the growth of Ascension.<\/p>\n
Father Duffell has conspicuously reached out to such young people, in often very simple ways. Every week, he ends Mass by asking for first-time visitors to announce where they are from, then leads the congregation in a round of applause to welcome them. <\/p>\n
The informational fliers for the church proclaim, \u201cNo matter your age, your race, your gender or your sexual orientation, there is a place for you at Ascension.\u201d In his speeches each week, Father Duffell expresses the same sentiment, each time mentioning sexual orientation. The message is not lost on the parishioners, gay or straight. <\/p>\n
\u201cRegardless of the issue of homosexuality, I\u2019ve always been a practicing Catholic \u2014 I took what I wanted and left the rest, so to speak,\u201d said John Gasdaska, a 43-year-old real estate agent who has attended Ascension since he moved to the neighborhood with his partner in 2000. \u201cBut the simple fact that he includes talking openly about that makes a world of difference. There\u2019s just no question that everyone is included in the message of Christ.\u201d <\/p>\n
Altragracia Hiraldo echoed Mr. Gasdaska\u2019s views. Since moving to the neighborhood after emigrating from the Dominican Republic, Ms. Hiraldo has attended Ascension for more than three decades and says it has changed \u201c100 percent.\u201d <\/p>\n
\u201cWe did not have enough people; there were no Americans, just Dominicans and maybe some Puerto Ricans,\u201d she said. \u201cNow, it\u2019s everybody: Americans, Peruvians, Mexicans, Ecuadoreans, everyone.\u201d<\/p>\n
More importantly, she said, the attitudes have changed. <\/p>\n
\u201cPeople are not afraid of each other, because everyone knows this is all of our church,\u201d she said. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Check out the link<\/a> for the rest. <\/p>\nPhoto: by Tyler Hicks, New York Times <\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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