{"id":1642,"date":"2007-07-30T08:10:00","date_gmt":"2007-07-30T08:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2007\/07\/its-not-just-priests.html"},"modified":"2007-07-30T08:10:00","modified_gmt":"2007-07-30T08:10:00","slug":"its-not-just-priests","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2007\/07\/its-not-just-priests.html","title":{"rendered":"It&#8217;s not just priests"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_0DySLTT4PWo\/Rq3YTlGldjI\/AAAAAAAAAZ4\/ar-PqbXdT48\/s1600-h\/OurLady_VLg.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"float:left;margin:0 10px 10px 0;cursor:pointer;cursor:hand\" src=\"https:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_0DySLTT4PWo\/Rq3YTlGldjI\/AAAAAAAAAZ4\/ar-PqbXdT48\/s320\/OurLady_VLg.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Here&#8217;s a small but significant detail that many have overlooked in writing about the mammoth sex abuse settlement in LA: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.washingtonpost.com\/wp-dyn\/content\/article\/2007\/07\/28\/AR2007072800734.html\"> a number<\/a> of those who committed abuse were not priests: <i><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>   Church teachers, sports coaches and even unpaid parochial school volunteers make up as much as 10 percent of the assailants, lawyers say.<\/p>\n<p>The Associated Press does not normally identify victims of sexual abuse, but in this case the brothers agreed to have their names released.<\/p>\n<p>The Livingston boys, (Paul and Joe), were 6 and 7 when their mother sent them to Catholic school in the 1970s. She worked several jobs to pay tuition after their father left when Paul was two months old.<\/p>\n<p>Joe, 11 months older, can still see the janitor&#8217;s face and hands. He also remembers times when the trailer door slammed in his face, leaving him standing outside with his little brother trapped inside.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I remember feeling so bad because it was my younger brother and I couldn&#8217;t do anything,&#8221; he said. &#8220;I remember thinking &#8216;God, all grown-ups, all old people, are like this.&#8217; Since then, I&#8217;ve been running scared.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>The brothers, who now live in San Diego, both dropped out of high school and lived for years in a fog of alcohol, drugs and depression. They were homeless together in the late 1990s, living in a stolen car in San Diego for months and camping on beaches in northern Mexico.<\/p>\n<p>In 2002, Paul saw a newspaper article about clergy abuse and they contacted a Costa Mesa attorney. When Paul spoke to the lawyer about the abuse for the first time, he was so upset he vomited.<\/p>\n<p>In 2004, they shared in a $100 million settlement against the Diocese of Orange. They were also plaintiffs in the suit against the Archdiocese of Los Angeles, which controlled Orange County parishes at the time.<\/p>\n<p>The janitor, who was never arrested, died in 1985.<\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p> It&#8217;s a horror, whoever was behind it.  But this serves to remind us that this story is more complicated than just the usual &#8220;pedophile priests&#8221; headline.   <\/p>\n<p><i>Photo: interior, Our Lady of the Angels Cathedral, Los Angeles <\/i><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s a small but significant detail that many have overlooked in writing about the mammoth sex abuse settlement in LA: a number of those who committed abuse were not priests: Church teachers, sports coaches and even unpaid parochial school volunteers make up as much as 10 percent of the assailants, lawyers say. 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