{"id":138,"date":"2009-09-23T06:58:00","date_gmt":"2009-09-23T06:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/deaconsbench\/2009\/09\/how-do-you-pray.html"},"modified":"2009-09-23T06:58:00","modified_gmt":"2009-09-23T06:58:00","slug":"how-do-you-pray","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/deaconsbench\/2009\/09\/how-do-you-pray.html","title":{"rendered":"How do you pray?"},"content":{"rendered":"

The New York Times magazine last weekend offered a long look<\/a> at how people of various faiths and orthodoxies pray. It was written by a self-professed agnostic, so his point of view is clearly skeptical. But much of the article makes for interesting reading, particularly when it comes to non-Catholic practices. Among other things, I was bemused to read the remarks of a young rabbi who said (in words that might prompt some tradition-minded Catholics to nod in agreement): “Praying in English is like kissing through a veil.” <\/p>\n

And there is this: <\/p>\n

<\/a>Once it was all simple. Catholics prayed in Latin for salvation in words and ceremonies dictated by the One True Church in Rome. Protestants prayed in fancy English for the expiation of sin and a place in a decorous heaven. Jews prayed in Hebrew to the One God who had inexplicably chosen us for a private destiny and saddled us with commandments.<\/p>\n

And then, in the time it took to go from Frank Sinatra to the Beatles, these ancient taboos and walls began to crash. Prayer changed, too. For Catholics, the key event was the Second Vatican Council. \u201cVatican II was a course correction when it came to Catholic prayer,\u201d says Bradford Hinze, a Fordham University professor of theology who is old enough to have personally experienced the change. \u201cEmphasis shifted to the centrality of the Bible for Catholic prayer.\u201d<\/p>\n

Part of this populist shift involved better exposing laypeople to a centuries-old method of Biblical exegesis and meditation called lectio divina, or divine reading. Practitioners set time aside for a daily Bible reading in four stages: reading the text carefully (lectio), contemplating its meaning (meditatio), entering into a dialogue with God about it (oratio) and reaching a wordless contemplation of God (contemplatio).<\/p>\n

\u201cPriests and women religious have always been taught to do this,\u201d Hinze explains. \u201cBut Vatican II called for \u2018full and active participation\u2019 by all Catholics. Part of that was praying in the vernacular. Another part was introducing lectio divina to laypeople.\u201d After Vatican II the practice became widespread among the laity.<\/p>\n

Catholic prayer has not only become more accessible to the laity, it seems; it has also become more private and personal. Janet Ruffing, a member of the Sisters of Mercy, is the director of Fordham\u2019s program on spirituality and spiritual direction. \u201cIn America, among Roman Catholics, roughly 80 percent of those doing pastoral ministry in Catholic parishes are women,\u201d she says. \u201cWomen religious have been very active in promoting deeper contemplative, mystical prayer. Until Vatican II, that was reserved for the very few. Now it is becoming the ordinary expectation for people with a regular prayer life.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ruffing says that the Eucharist remains the defining source of Catholic spirituality, but that you can have authentic spiritual experiences not mediated by ritual. \u201cMost people don\u2019t live in churches. And these days, most laypeople tend to do more contemplative prayer and less confession. The sacrament of penance has radically diminished since Vatican II.\u201d In today\u2019s American Catholic Church, in Rabbi Gellman\u2019s terms, Oops! is being replaced by Wow! There is a renewed popularity to the mystical component of prayer, and it is found especially in the retreat movement.<\/p>\n

Ruffing explained to me that retreats, particularly for laypeople, are like marathons; you have to train for them. Beginners usually start with a weekend. Eight-day retreats are the next step, and for those with sufficient spiritual stamina, there is a full month of exercises. One technique used on some of these retreats comes from the Contemplative Outreach movement. Retreatants are given a single word, \u201clike a mantra,\u201d Ruffing says, and urged to return to it when their minds wander from prayer and contemplation. Some Catholics (and many Episcopalians) use the John Main method, named after a Benedictine monk. This is essentially Hindu chanting, which Main, who introduced the method, learned in Kuala Lumpur in the 1950s from a swami who gave him what Main called a \u201cChristian mantra.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u201cThere has been a watershed recovery of mystical theology in our lifetime,\u201d Hinze says. \u201cThe church is experiencing globalization. Buddhism and other Eastern practices are increasingly influential, and we are at an early stage in our understanding of them. The fear among some is that Christians will develop an enthusiasm for Eastern traditions without discovering their own mystical sources. Still, this is the way a significant portion of American Roman Catholicism is moving. The old us-versus-them doesn\u2019t work anymore.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

There is more — much more — so visit the link<\/a> for the rest.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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