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<\/a>\u201cYou have five months and 26 days before your ordination,\u201d a woman told Deacon Shawn P. Carey after Mass Dec. 28 at Newton\u2019s Sacred Heart Church.<\/p>\n\u201cI had no idea how many days it was until she told me. I wasn\u2019t even thinking like that but it shows that they are anticipating it,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
\u201cThey\u201d are the deaf community of the Archdiocese of Boston, which is eagerly awaiting the ordination of the first member of their community as a priest of Boston.<\/p>\n
Although he was ordained a transitional deacon with his classmates at St. Patrick\u2019s Seminary in Menlo Park, Calif., he will be ordained with the other priests for Boston May 23 at the South End\u2019s Cathedral of the Holy Cross, Deacon Carey said through the sign interpretation of Father Jeremy P. St. Martin, the archdiocese\u2019s coordinator of Deaf Ministries.<\/p>\n
Father St. Martin said St. Patrick\u2019s Seminary has had other deaf seminarians and its faculty and facilities make it a very accessible and supportive institution.<\/p>\n
Deacon Carey said his vocation was clear to him as a boy growing up in Westfield, but there were persistent challenges that he had to overcome. \u201cThe Church did not have great access.\u201d<\/p>\n
In fact, when it was time for him to prepare for his First Communion, he was unable to participate in the regular religious education classes at his home parish because they were not equipped to instruct a deaf child, he said.<\/p>\n
His mother, Kathryn M. Carey, an assistant for the Deaf Apostolate, said the family traveled to Holyoke\u2019s Blessed Sacrament Church, where Deacon Carey\u2019s parents knew the pastor from their days as students at Springfield\u2019s Cathedral High School.<\/p>\n
Eventually, his parents found a tutor who, despite being a Protestant, helped prepare him for his First Communion.<\/p>\n
While a student himself at Cathedral High School, Deacon Carey said he had an encounter that nearly squashed his vocation for good.<\/p>\n
\u201cI needed a note taker for my classes and I asked one of the priests to help me find one,\u201d he said. \u201cThe priest told me: \u2018That is your problem, not mine.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Carey said that response came as a brutal shock. He put aside his vocation and fixed his sights on becoming a lawyer.<\/p>\n
\u201cIf that is what being a priest was about, I didn\u2019t want to waste my time. As a lawyer, I could help other members of the deaf community and take care of myself,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
It was not until he arrived at Providence College as a political science and business major that he said he found a fully embracing environment for the deaf. \u201cThey had great access, including captioning and interpreters. The barriers were really broken down there.\u201d<\/p>\n
Calling them the best four years of his life, Deacon Carey was very active in the college\u2019s chapel community and a member of the Sixth Man Society for boosters of the college\u2019s basketball team, the Friars.<\/p>\n
At Providence College he met priests who cared about him and devoted their lives to academic excellence. \u201cBut, still it never crossed my mind to become a priest,\u201d he said.<\/p>\n
After graduation, he moved in with his parents, then living in Wrentham, and started work at Putnam Investments while he prepared to apply to law schools.<\/p>\n
As members of Wrentham\u2019s St. Mary Parish, the Careys attended the Sunday 4 p.m. Mass, at which Deaf Ministries arranged for a sign interpreter, he said.<\/p>\n
Roberta M. Oles, the parish\u2019s director of religious education, said the then-pastor, Father John G. Connolly, invited Father Michael B. Medas, who was then the director of Deaf Ministries, to celebrate the 4 p.m. Sunday Mass as part of the ministry\u2019s outreach to members of the deaf community.<\/p>\n
Father Medas, who now teaches at St. John\u2019s Seminary, said he remembers meeting Deacon Carey after that first time. \u201cHe was so kind and gracious, and happy to be able to experience the Mass directly.\u201d<\/p>\n
Deacon Carey said, \u201cFor the first time, I was able to hear the Lord speaking directly to me through the priest, not through an interpreter.\u201d<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
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