{"id":85,"date":"2011-03-12T14:44:02","date_gmt":"2011-03-12T14:44:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/dailyjoys\/2011\/03\/keepin-it-real.html"},"modified":"2011-03-12T14:44:02","modified_gmt":"2011-03-12T14:44:02","slug":"keepin-it-real","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dailyjoys\/2011\/03\/keepin-it-real.html","title":{"rendered":"KEEPIN&#8217; IT REAL"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>An inquiry came from a listener to Steve Maraboli&#8217;s Empowered Living Radio show &#8211;&nbsp; &#8220;How do you keep yourself authentic?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll elaborate on my reply.&nbsp; It will immediately sound counter to all that I have to say about &#8220;begin as if it were on purpose,&#8221; and &#8220;live with intention,&#8221; but here goes.<\/p>\n<p>I begin every day on auto pilot.&nbsp; Yep.&nbsp; It&#8217;s true.&nbsp; My innovation, extraordinary productivity and fresh creativity comes from HABIT. EVERY MORNING is begun, essentially,&nbsp; on auto pilot because I am committed to a routine that roots me in my mission and purpose for the rest of the day.&nbsp; Wanna know?&nbsp; Okay.<\/p>\n<p>Most mornings it is cold in our house so I wake, snuggle the covers or my husband for warmth.&nbsp; I invite myself, in this way to accept the invitation to the waking world.&nbsp; While I savor a cup of coffee (generally delivered to me by my loving husband, although sometimes I make it myself) I select my life log, current guide book, meditation book a pen and my iPhone. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I write everything in my life log that I remember of significance (that I remember) from the day before.&nbsp; Events that stand out, lessons learned, joys and challenges encountered, conquered or observed, friends with whom I connected.&nbsp; I usually write with a pen that was a gift from a special friend.&nbsp; Even in that choice I begin to connect to my gratitudes in the day. <\/p>\n<p>Next &#8211; I open my chosen meditation book and arbitrarily pick a phrase.&nbsp; This year I&#8217;m using Thomas Merton&#8217;s edited\/collected works called THE BOOK OF HOURS and today&#8217;s phrase was, &#8220;Breathe God&#8217;s Air.&#8221;&nbsp; I write that at the top of today&#8217;s log page (which I will fill in tomorrow morning). &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After that!&nbsp; I reach for my current &#8220;guide book.&#8221;&nbsp; I&#8217;m honored that, for many people, this role is filled with one of my books!&nbsp; This year I&#8217;m using a gift from a friend (don&#8217;t lots of our best books come to us that way?) A YEAR OF LIVING CONSCIOUSLY by Gay Hendricks.&nbsp; Serendipitously, today&#8217;s reading was about breathing in the air of our own miracles.&nbsp; (see &#8220;breathe God&#8217;s Air&#8221; above). &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Next I play a word puzzle.&nbsp; It&#8217;s just challenging enough to get my cognitive motor going but accessible enough that most days I can complete it.&nbsp; This helps me model a feeling of success and accomplishment which I bring into my day. And on the days I can&#8217;t solve the word puzzle &#8211; I use the exercise as a point of instruction. On those days I am cautious to be tender with difficult tasks and avoid doing things that involve a lot of numbers or putting complex pieces of information in columns! &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Almost done with my auto-pilot morning &#8211; I move to my Facebook news feed.&nbsp; I connect with my friends and allow myself to feel the gratitude that I know so many incredible, truly fine people.&nbsp; THEN&#8230;my feet hit the floor. The whole routine I&#8217;ve described takes between fifteen and twenty minutes.&nbsp; And they are some of the most important minutes of my day. After that morning investment:&nbsp;&nbsp; my auto pilot is switched off and I am ready for the jigs, jags and turns of the road that accompany the path of any day. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>David Campbell said, &#8220;Discipline is just remembering what you really want.&#8221;&nbsp; This discipline, this practice that I do, without exception, every morning, connects me to my authentic core.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>Would you like to listen to that interview with Steve Maraboli? I reference the resources of TheaFoundation.org and my volunteer as an angel through SoldiersAngels.org. &nbsp; &nbsp; Copy and paste this address into your browser:<\/p>\n<p>http:\/\/www.blogtalkradio.com\/stevemaraboli\/2011\/03\/10\/practical-reflections-part-5-with-mary-anne-radmacher<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>An inquiry came from a listener to Steve Maraboli&#8217;s Empowered Living Radio show &#8211;&nbsp; &#8220;How do you keep yourself authentic?&#8221; I&#8217;ll elaborate on my reply.&nbsp; It will immediately sound counter to all that I have to say about &#8220;begin as if it were on purpose,&#8221; and &#8220;live with intention,&#8221; but here goes. 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