{"id":677,"date":"2011-07-27T15:48:01","date_gmt":"2011-07-27T19:48:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/dailyjoys\/?p=677"},"modified":"2011-07-27T15:48:49","modified_gmt":"2011-07-27T19:48:49","slug":"what-she-said","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dailyjoys\/2011\/07\/what-she-said.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;What SHE Said&#8230;&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Perfectly expressed by my fellow writer, Ellen Lambert (who blogs at EllenOutLoud at Braveheartwomen.com)\u00a0 I woke up hearing the words, &#8220;Children don&#8217;t like it when their parents fight.&#8221;\u00a0 Ellen captures this sentiment perfectly.<br \/>\nI grew up in a family where the parent people fought all the time. All the time. It was habitual. It was constant. It was distressing, disturbing, and annoying. Nothing was ever resolved; no conclusions were ever drawn. The current debt-ceiling debate is giving me flashbacks.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s because I was raised around it, but I am not a big fan of bickering. I loathe name-calling. I abhor baseless rhetoric.<\/p>\n<p>I do, however, adore a good debate. I sure wish we could have one.<\/p>\n<p>Between the finger-pointing, blaming, and pouting I just wish the Great Playground Monitor would call a big recess to recess and send all the squabbling brats and bullies to time-out or home, it makes me no difference<\/p>\n<p>I never had the power to get my arguing progenitors to stop. I do remember asking them to. Yesterday I asked my representatives in Washington to do the same. I used to tell my parents that they had to stop behaving so stupidly; they were supposed to be taking care of me. I reminded my Senators and Congress people of that too.<\/p>\n<p>Yes, all the juvenile posturing and gesturing does remind me of a time when I never had a say in things, but now that I do? Oh, I intend to make my voice heard. Out loud.<\/p>\n<p>Speak up, and Soldier on!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Perfectly expressed by my fellow writer, Ellen Lambert (who blogs at EllenOutLoud at Braveheartwomen.com)\u00a0 I woke up hearing the words, &#8220;Children don&#8217;t like it when their parents fight.&#8221;\u00a0 Ellen captures this sentiment perfectly. I grew up in a family where the parent people fought all the time. All the time. It was habitual. 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