{"id":45,"date":"2011-01-17T11:11:11","date_gmt":"2011-01-17T11:11:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/dailyjoys\/2011\/01\/if-you-have-one-friend.html"},"modified":"2011-01-17T11:11:11","modified_gmt":"2011-01-17T11:11:11","slug":"if-you-have-one-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dailyjoys\/2011\/01\/if-you-have-one-friend.html","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;If You Have One Friend&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;you hold the hand of the world.&#8221;&nbsp; That&#8217;s from LIVE WITH INTENTION.&nbsp; Appreciating my friends is one of my ten main life intentions.&nbsp; Recently I read that Sophie Tucker, the singer from the early 20th century who was called &#8220;The Last of the Red Hot Mama&#8217;s&#8221; said, &#8220;The secret to success in show business is knowing how to make and keep friends.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I found myself responding to Sophie with, &#8220;That&#8217;s the secret to almost everything, not just show business.&#8221;&nbsp; So much of today&#8217;s conventional wisdom on success in business, of any sort, is that it begins with solid relationships.&nbsp; The truth of country music chimes in here with, &#8220;If you ain&#8217;t got friends, you ain&#8217;t got nuthin&#8217;.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Observing my Dad&#8217;s last days of life, in the time he was able to speak, was a testament to the validity of this observation.&nbsp; He died, with only me at his side.&nbsp; He had not tended the garden of his friends.&nbsp; It is the only thing that he expressed any regret over.&nbsp; I endeavor to do one kind thing, one demonstration of remembering and appreciation for one of my friends, every day.&nbsp; No matter how busy I am or what I am doing.&nbsp; I know that at the end of the matter &#8211; it will not be the completed project I cherish&#8230;but the hand of a friend that I am holding.&nbsp; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8230;you hold the hand of the world.&#8221;&nbsp; That&#8217;s from LIVE WITH INTENTION.&nbsp; 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