{"id":4709,"date":"2024-04-18T10:18:22","date_gmt":"2024-04-18T14:18:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dailycupofwellness\/?p=4709"},"modified":"2024-04-18T10:18:22","modified_gmt":"2024-04-18T14:18:22","slug":"patrick-swayzes-widow-says-star-knew-he-was-a-dead-man-upon-hearing-cancer-diagnosis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dailycupofwellness\/2024\/04\/patrick-swayzes-widow-says-star-knew-he-was-a-dead-man-upon-hearing-cancer-diagnosis.html","title":{"rendered":"Patrick Swayze&#8217;s Widow Says Star Knew He Was a &#8216;Dead Man&#8217; Upon Hearing Cancer Diagnosis"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_4718\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-4718\" style=\"width: 1200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-4718\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/410\/2024\/04\/patrick-lisa-niemi-swayze-credit-featureflash-photo-agency-shutterstock.jpg\" alt=\"patrick swayze lisa niemi swayze\" width=\"1200\" height=\"900\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-4718\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Featureflash Photo Agency\/Shutterstock.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Patrick Swayze\u2019s widow, Lisa Niemi Swayze, recently opened up about the challenging journey after his cancer diagnosis. During a recent appearance on the \u201cAmy and T.J. Podcast,\u201d Lisa shared Patrick\u2019s initial reaction to hearing that he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in January 2008. She said on the podcast, \u201cWhen he first found out he had pancreatic cancer, he turned to me and said, \u2018I\u2019m a dead man.\u2019 I didn\u2019t know much about pancreatic cancer, but he did, and from what he knew, anytime you heard someone had had pancreatic cancer, it was like, \u2018Well, he\u2019s out of here.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She further explained the actor\u2019s doctors were able to confirm his diagnosis following an endoscopic procedure, after which they informed her of his condition, leaving her to wonder when the right time was to tell her husband. After finding out about her husband\u2019s diagnosis, she shared he was still \u201cpretty knocked out,\u201d and she didn\u2019t want to \u201ctell him when he was woozy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She chose instead to wait, adding when she woke up from a nap in the hospital room a few hours later, she found \u201cthe doctor was sitting across from him, and he was in bed,\u201d saying, \u201cI knew the doctor had just told him.\u201d She told the \u201cAmy and T.J. Podcast,\u201d \u201cSure enough, the doctor said you can go ahead and treat it and be as aggressive as you want, but do think about getting your affairs in order sooner rather than later. That\u2019s a tough thing to hear.\u201d From then on, Lisa explained, \u201cevery ounce of energy we had was gonna go into helping him live.\u201d Her first instinct was to call her sister-in-law, who worked as an oncologist in Texas, and suggested getting Patrick into a clinical trial and to \u201ccome out with guns blazing.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><iframe title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/dFb2PxB_MwM?si=9aAg843AUtSPKzr-\" width=\"560\" height=\"315\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Aside from the ways they treated\u00a0his cancer\u00a0medically, Lisa explained they tried their hardest to remain positive. She explained, \u201cYour life turns on a dime, and it\u2019s just never gonna be the same after that. Everything shifted. We always called ourselves optimistic realists because we knew in all likelihood how this was gonna turn out, but we held out that he would be the one to make it through it because miracles do happen. We kept so positive about everything, but I tell you what, it was like living in a complete nightmare 24\/7.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While it was vital for them to remain positive, Lisa admitted it was hard for her at times, saying she would occasionally cry, but only in private. She told the podcast hosts Patrick only saw her cry once and that \u201cit scared him,\u201d so she tried not to let him catch her again. One moment that was particularly heartbreaking for Lisa was when the two of them were walking together at\u00a0their New Mexico ranch, and he was telling her how much he would like to go camping one last time.<\/p>\n<p>She said, &#8220;We\u2019re walking along. It\u2019s a beautiful day, and he looked at me with tears in his eyes; he said, &#8216;I want to live.\u2019\u201d The couple met when Lisa was 15 and Patrick was 19, at his mother&#8217;s ballet school in Houston, Texas, and they later got married in 1975. The two were together for 34 years, with Lisa staying by his side until\u00a0his death in September 2009.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Patrick Swayze\u2019s widow, Lisa Niemi Swayze, recently opened up about the challenging journey after his cancer diagnosis. During a recent appearance on the \u201cAmy and T.J. Podcast,\u201d Lisa shared Patrick\u2019s initial reaction to hearing that he was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer in January 2008. 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