{"id":221,"date":"2011-06-22T14:03:39","date_gmt":"2011-06-22T18:03:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/dadequate\/?p=221"},"modified":"2011-06-22T12:04:26","modified_gmt":"2011-06-22T16:04:26","slug":"bobby-cannavale-on-fatherhood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/dadequate\/2011\/06\/bobby-cannavale-on-fatherhood.html","title":{"rendered":"Bobby Cannavale on Fatherhood"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/s3.broadway.com\/article-photos\/large\/2.155844.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"606\" height=\"253\" \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>At Broadway.com, <\/strong>recent Tony nominee Bobby Cannavale <a href=\"http:\/\/www.broadway.com\/buzz\/awards\/tony-awards\/shows\/motherfker-hat\/156463\/tony-nominee-bobby-cannavale-on-love-fatherhood-and-getting-the-last-laugh-in-motherfker\/\" target=\"_blank\">talks about his newish black comedy<\/a>, <em>The Motherf**ker With the Hat,<\/em> and touche on the impact fatherhood has had on his career. At 41, Cannavale and ex-wife Jenny Lumet are the parents of Jake, who is 16:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>Switching gears, your son, Jake, just turned 16. What have you enjoyed about being a young dad? <\/em><\/p>\n<p>Oh, wow, everything! I never thought I would get married and have kids.  I thought I was going to be a gypsy actor, traveling all over the world  playing the great roles. I ended up having a kid very young, and it put  things in perspective. He became the most important person in my life,  and everything else seemed to fall into place. I\u2019ve made decisions that  perhaps have not let me go as far in my career, but I\u2019m totally fine  with that because it\u2019s kept me close to my son. That kid is an  exceptional kid. Anybody who talks to him can\u2019t get over how grown up  and confident he is. We spend a lot of time together. He tells me a lot,  and I\u2019m honored that I have that kind of relationship with him.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>I&#8217;m always impressed by people<\/strong> who admit to having made potentially career-limiting decisions out of a kid&#8217;s best interest. Yes, it&#8217;s a luxury to be able to do so &#8212; some dads just want a job, period &#8212; but for lots of dads it can be a significant sacrifice.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a worthwhile one, though. Because <a href=\"http:\/\/www.photius.com\/feminocracy\/facts_on_fatherless_kids.html\" target=\"_blank\">the stats are pretty clear<\/a>: a kid has a better chance of succeeding and becoming &#8220;exceptional&#8221; when he or she grows up with an active, present dad. Whether his dad is on Broadway or not.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At Broadway.com, recent Tony nominee Bobby Cannavale talks about his newish black comedy, The Motherf**ker With the Hat, and touche on the impact fatherhood has had on his career. At 41, Cannavale and ex-wife Jenny Lumet are the parents of Jake, who is 16: Switching gears, your son, Jake, just turned 16. 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