{"id":1114,"date":"2013-04-04T04:00:53","date_gmt":"2013-04-04T04:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/cosmiccandor\/?p=1114"},"modified":"2013-04-03T19:20:47","modified_gmt":"2013-04-03T19:20:47","slug":"aries-the-selfish-sign","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/cosmiccandor\/2013\/04\/aries-the-selfish-sign.html","title":{"rendered":"Aries: The Selfish Sign?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.tarot.com\/astrology\/zodiac-sign-lessons\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-1115\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/329\/2013\/04\/me-380x235.jpg\" alt=\"On Being a Selfish Witch by Maria DeSimone at Tarot.com\" width=\"380\" height=\"235\" \/><\/a>Hmmmmm, interesting. I just read Maria DeSimone&#8217;s new blog about how every zodiac sign has a lesson to learn, and she talked a great deal about how selfish Aries is.<\/p>\n<p>That sounds bad, right? Except the way she put it, well, it&#8217;s not.<\/p>\n<p>Sure, Aries is fiery and blustery, and they tend to charge ahead with their own wants and needs leading the way, which is indeed a bit selfish. Or at least I always kinda thought so. I don&#8217;t have a ton of Aries friends because they often trample right on over my quiet, sensitive nature.<\/p>\n<p>But guess what? It turns out that being selfish is a necessary part of personal growth for Aries. Maria explains that they are selfish because they&#8217;re learning to be self-directed and independent. They are, in fact, <em>supposed<\/em> to be selfish.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe Maria&#8217;s just saying that to defend herself because she has so much Aries energy. Ha! Just kidding, Maria. I get where you&#8217;re coming from.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m trying to talk Maria into writing another article about the important life lessons for every sign, and I&#8217;ll let you know when that&#8217;s done. I&#8217;m dying to know what my Gemini lesson is &#8212; somehow I think it has something to do with mind control, lol. In the meantime, see what Maria says about Aries.<\/p>\n<p>Do YOU know any Aries who seem selfish? Maybe you should read this and cut &#8217;em some slack.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"On Being a Selfish Witch by Maria DeSimone at Tarot.com\" href=\"http:\/\/www.tarot.com\/astrology\/zodiac-sign-lessons\" target=\"_blank\">See Maria DeSimone&#8217;s blog &#8220;On Being a Selfish Witch&#8221; at Tarot.com \u00bb<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hmmmmm, interesting. I just read Maria DeSimone&#8217;s new blog about how every zodiac sign has a lesson to learn, and she talked a great deal about how selfish Aries is. That sounds bad, right? Except the way she put it, well, it&#8217;s not. Sure, Aries is fiery and blustery, and they tend to charge ahead&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":489,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,12],"tags":[144,7,27,32,499,81,29,498,28,11],"class_list":["post-1114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-astrology","category-zodiac-signs-2","tag-aries","tag-astrology-2","tag-blog","tag-karen-kay","tag-lessons","tag-libra","tag-maria-desimone","tag-selfish","tag-tarot-com","tag-zodiac-signs"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Aries: The Selfish Sign? - Cosmic Candor<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/cosmiccandor\/2013\/04\/aries-the-selfish-sign.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Aries: The Selfish Sign? - Cosmic Candor\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Hmmmmm, interesting. 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