{"id":594,"date":"2014-03-31T19:43:05","date_gmt":"2014-03-31T19:43:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/commonsensechristianity\/?p=594"},"modified":"2014-03-31T19:43:05","modified_gmt":"2014-03-31T19:43:05","slug":"speak-up-and-dont-be-afraid","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/commonsensechristianity\/2014\/03\/speak-up-and-dont-be-afraid.html","title":{"rendered":"Speak up, and Don’t be Afraid"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Recently, I wrote a letter to the editor about an obscenely expensive, $20 million dollar bond our local school district is floating. As a veteran homeschooler who launched four highly literate, analytical, articulate adults into the world of work and home, I’m unconvinced that massive amounts of money, spent without any sense of accountability to the people providing it, is the best way to achieve an educated citizenry.<\/p>\n

Now when you write a letter to the editor, especially on a controversial topic, you frequently get one of two responses, either publicly, or in your Facebook messages:<\/p>\n

“You’re crazy! You have no idea what you’re talking about, and you\u00a0are unqualified to speak on the matter\u00a0at all. You should just shut up.”<\/p>\n

(This is the sanitized version, by the way, removing all the words that begin with “f,” describe explicit body parts, or refer to the waste product of a chicken.)<\/p>\n

The opposite spectrum looks like this:<\/p>\n

“I’m so glad you spoke up, and said what so many of us are thinking.”<\/p>\n

Why Are You Afraid?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

When I respond to those people (I generally delete the others; you can’t reason with someone who sputters like Sylvester the Cat), I ask,<\/p>\n

“If this is what you think, then why don’t you write a letter to the editor as well? The more people who speak up, the more support for the message.”<\/p>\n

“Oh, I could NEVER do that!” is the general response. “I would be\u00a0attacked<\/em>\u00a0by people who disagree with me!”<\/p>\n

Well yes, that’s a strong possibility, but generally — in areas where there are still letters to the editor and we have the nominal appearance of freedom of speech — the\u00a0persecution we endure\u00a0frequently\u00a0involves others\u00a0laughing at our stupidity, or calling us fools, or questioning our intelligence level. And, unfortunately, for many people, this is enough to keep them from speaking:<\/p>\n

Peer pressure. It starts in pre-school and follows us our entire lives, if we let it.<\/p>\n

There’s Always a Good Reason<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

There is always a good reason not to speak up: if you’re a businessperson, you may lose clients because you hold an unpopular opinion. If you’re a homeowner, you may find yourself with a broken window from a coward who signs his name with rocks, not words. If you’re just a nobody (all people are nobodies, really; and we’re all somebodies —\u00a0realizing this\u00a0keeps us humble, with dignity), you may want to avoid confrontation\u00a0with your brother-in-law, who has\u00a0loud, strident opinions that he brings to the family reunion.<\/p>\n

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There is a time and a season for everything — to speak up, and to be silent — but fear of ridicule should not be a concern when it comes to doing either. Contemplation, original oil painting by Steve Henderson, sold; licensed open edition print at Great Big Canvas.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

But as much as you may wish to run from confrontation, if you’re a Christian, you can’t make a lifestyle choice of this:<\/p>\n

“Brother will betray brother to death, and a father his child,”<\/em>\u00a0Jesus tells us in Matthew 10: 21-22. “Children will rebel\u00a0against\u00a0their parents and have them put to death. All men will hate\u00a0you because of me, but he who stands firm to the end will be saved.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Now the reaction Jesus is talking about is a bit stronger than what we expect to receive when we write a letter to the editor, but then again,\u00a0Christ’s message, entrusted to us,\u00a0is\u00a0greater than opposing a school bond:<\/p>\n

Jesus provides the only solution to the problems, pain, and evil of this world. Following Him, listening to Him, and doing what He says is the best, and only, way.<\/p>\n

An Unpopular Message<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

This is not a particularly popular message: Jesus Himself paid for it with His life. So have His followers, through the centuries and into today.<\/p>\n

“If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.”<\/em>\u00a0(John 15: 18-19)<\/p>\n

If you, like me, live in a nation that still looks “free,” be aware that it isn’t, and there\u00a0may\u00a0come a day when you will face accusers who have nothing more against you than that you worship Christ, not them, or the god of their choice. If you wonder how you will respond on this day, and fear that you will falter, then connect with Christ, NOW, and spend more time reading His words than you do the newspaper, listen to His voice more than you do the commentators on network news, and put your faith in Him, not men.<\/p>\n

And don’t be afraid to write a letter to the editor now and then.<\/p>\n

Thank You<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Thank you for joining me at Commonsense Christianity. As Christians, we have a unique relationship with God, and this relationship enables us to learn from the wisest, kindest, most powerful, most compassionate Person — One who has no beginning and no end, no ability to fail, no weakness, and no darkness within Him at all.<\/p>\n

But you can’t learn from Someone you don’t spend time with, and if the only thing you know about Jesus is what\u00a0other people tell you, you won’t know much about Him at all. Stop listening to other people: pull out that Bible that many people are sitting in prison today for the “crime” of possession, and read it. Got questions? Ask the Author.<\/p>\n

Posts similar to this one are<\/p>\n

Sleeping Christians: Wake. Up.<\/a><\/p>\n

Put Your Money Where Your Beliefs Are<\/a><\/p>\n

Christians: It’s Time to Read Grown-up Books<\/a><\/p>\n

The Dissident Christian: Does This Describe You?<\/a><\/p>\n

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